finding gay or bi guys

[jessehs]

I live in denver and there are 630 kids in my 9th grade class alone, so im sure there are other gay or bi guys, does anyone have any tips on finding guys who are also gay or bi?
thanks!:wub:

[West Coast Sheriff]

Im sure there are. I think you just have to be patient. Eventually You'll find someone. :D

[Jackerlus]

Get friendly with some suspects. See how they talk and act and then start talking to em. You'll probably be able to tell and when you've gotten more friendly, find some way of finding out from them, subtly I would suggest.

[DerBear]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Relationships and Dating

You'll find more relevant answers here

[nice]

Just ask people think I'm gay so they ask it's easier than just guessing and being wrong

[Apollo.]

If you aren't out and nobody else is it will be difficult, not impossible though. If you try and expand your circle of friends then you may find someone that is out only to close friends. If not then they might know people from other schools that are gay. If not you have new friends so its still no bad thing.

If you don't find anyone then just be patient and when you feel ready to come out then when other guys become aware of your sexuality then they will most likely approach you. If you befriend someone that you suspect to be gay drop subtle hints about your sexuality and see where it leads.

Your still young so don't worry if you don't find someone right away!

[jessehs]

Thanks everybody! ill keep the advice in mind

[Thepolice5291]

Keep a search for them, Maybe use your Gaydar, If they have a gay accent then they may be gay

[MattT]

I hear you. Coming from someone who lives here I can't find anyone either.

[berns.pdf]

It's not always as easy as coming out. Haha
I'm out and I'm one of the popular kids at school, but it's either there's a gay guy that's not attractive enough for me or I want someone straight. Kids from other schools don't do it for me, either.

Don't be too pressured into searching for a lover this early in your life. Now's the time to enjoy your youth & have fun. I bet over 90% of teenage relationships don't last. Leave the tender gooey romance ish to later on when you feel you can be serious about getting into a relationship with someone who'd also be serious - that would be around the same time you can legally go out and about into gay bars and clubs searching for a man.

[berns.pdf]

Keep a search for them, Maybe use your Gaydar, If they have a gay accent then they may be gay

I know for a fact there are a lot of gay men that are very much more masculine than straight men. The idea that there is a particular gay attitude or behavior is called being stereotypical. Now, stereotypes, as we all know, are complete BS wastes of thought.

[Apollo.]

I know for a fact there are a lot of gay men that are very much more masculine than straight men. The idea that there is a particular gay attitude or behavior is called being stereotypical. Now, stereotypes, as we all know, are complete BS wastes of thought.

I totally agree with this, not every gay guy is camp, I for one don't think anyone would think I was gay. However it's not just how people act, you can sometimes get clues from where they look, if they never comment on attractive girls little things like that. Even with clues though you will never be sure by just using your gaydar.