I suck at this

[jumpthedog]

I have been trying to at least PINPOINT a girl that I like in my school (i'm 16, a junior in high school). It is so difficult to figure out which one and I don't know where to even start. On top of that, I don't even know if anyone likes me or anything. When I turned 16, my parents finally told me that I was allowed to date and such. So, I have no experience, have no clue what i'm doing and just don't know. I just want some other peoples' opinions. Can anyone help? I will probably explain more if others reply, but just yeah.:what:

[ackmedsgirl666]

ok explain more..
what difference does it make if you have big legs
then i guess the girls in your school are all bimbos and go for all the slezebags and not the kind loving ones like you. just give it time. build a bond with a girl
eventually a relationship will come to you like mine did

[FreeFall]

The problem is you're trying to pinpoint.

Like you said, you're new and inexperienced. You don't know what you like or what you need from a girlfriend yet.
I'm not saying go date yourself a drunken, trashy, whore, and you certainly may have things that you're attracted to. But you make it sounds as if you've got a list of what your future girlfriend must have, tear that list up.
Dating is about exploring yourself and other people. You find out what your limits are, you find out what it is, you learn about others and yourself. You may like a girl that isn't needy in one relationship, the next you'll find yourself loving being needed. It's an example, a bad one sorry, but I hope you can see my point. Just be open, but still have your lines drawn (:

[West Coast Sheriff]

I think by the time your sixteen, appearance starts to matter less and less. People will only like you for who you really are. And I think you should approach one of these girls. I'm sure that you'll get where your going. And if a girl doesn't like you, then just try again. :D

[rachin2u42]

pinpointing never works, love always finds us

[Eliza Snark]

pinpointing never works, love always finds us

I wouldn't phrase it like that, but for the most part you're right. OP, you can't choose who you like- the strongest attraction comes naturally. There's absolutely wrong with just not being attracted to anyone you know right now. In fact, you're probably saving yourself a lot of stress.

Just because you're can now doesn't mean you have to do it immediately.

[jumpthedog]

There's absolutely wrong with just not being attracted to anyone you know right now.

Thank you, apparently I am the only one who thinks that way amongst the people I know. Sadly, the only actual natural attraction is to a girl at my church, so lol

I think by the time your sixteen, appearance starts to matter less and less.

Ha, you are funny.

But you make it sounds as if you've got a list of what your future girlfriend must have, tear that list up.:
I'm jst shortening the quotes, makes it easier, but no, I don't have one, I was actually just looking at every girl like "Maybe?" But yeah, no; like the quote from a little farther up says, I guess it is fine with not being attracted to anyone, really.

build a bond with a girl
eventually a relationship will come to you like mine did

That is actually what my brother said. So, it will take a bit of time, but I can be patient for things to fall into place.


Thank you all for the responses, you guys :)