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Benm
October 14th, 2012, 11:43 PM
I'm bi and want to try and date/explore with boys for the first time, but i don't know anyone my age who is gay/bi and i don't want to date someone online due to the dangers and difficulty it entails. I also haven't come out to anyone but my closest friends. I have one bi friend whom I used to like and he liked me but he was uncomfortable dating a boy so he's out of the question :P. How can I find someone?

rguevara12
October 15th, 2012, 12:26 PM
Honestly just talk to people, even if its online just dont give out too much info about yourself and just get to know the person, and know your limits such as topic wise and age limit, hope this helps

StoppingTime
October 15th, 2012, 01:41 PM
:arrow: Relationships and Dating.
You'll find better responses to your question there.

Apollo.
October 15th, 2012, 02:46 PM
There isn't much you can do if you aren't out and neither is anyone you know. Only thing I could suggest is trying to extend your circle of friends and maybe then you would meet more gay/bi people through new friends. There will be guys out there it's just a matter of time. Good luck!:D

rachin2u42
October 15th, 2012, 03:59 PM
if online... be safe... there are freaks out there

Dangoblin
October 15th, 2012, 05:22 PM
Just as Nik said... If you aren't out, that will make it a whole lot harder. Just last week ive started coming out at school. Around 13 people know and a teacher. Also, me and this one kid who's gay just started "talking" today. According to my friend he likes me. So what I'm saying is that if you come out, it will make your chances of finding someone a lot easier.
Goodluck!