telling a girl your bi

[jessehs]

There is a girl who i know who im thinking about tellin im bi. Why i am thinking about it is because one shes really cool, and two shes bisexual herself, but im not sure about it seeing as im still in the closet. any advice would be apreicated, thanks!

[ackmedsgirl666]

she shouldnt have a problem with it seeing that shes bi
just go with it and be like.. so...... how did u tell people your sexuality when you found out.. because im kind of struggling because ive discovered im bi myself and i need some support?
go with that and let me know:)

[DerBear]

If she's bi she is probably going understand your situation your in and will possibly turn out to be a very supporting friend or more.

I think you should just be open and tell her. I mean she can't judge you or anything since she is bi. So really what is the problem. The only thing to worry about would be trust, aka she doesn't go telling everyone your bi before your ready but chances are she won't. So you should tell her.

Good Luck :)

[jessehs]

that all sounds like good advice, and i forgot to mention that she also wants to date me

[Apollo.]

With her also being bi she will probably understand your situation, I reckon she will understand that you might not want her to tell anyone else as she could of been in that situation herself. Do you think she is a trustworthy person? Your judgement will be better than anyone on vt since you know her and can get a better feel for her character. It's your call but everyone I have spoken to says that they feel much better after coming out to at least one person. At the end of the day it's your decision and you will need to decide if you trust her enough