Crush help! (boys and girls welcome)

[maysen22]

Im in 10th grade and there is this girl in 9th grade. I am constantly thinking about her throughout the day. I am good looking, play hockey, and am muscular(if that stuff even matters). I see her everyday at 9th hour at gym. and at this past dance we would sneak peeks at eachother every once and a while. I want to eventually ask her out but how do i get her number? How do I confront her? please help!

[DerBear]

Generally, just talking about anything. Over thinking things only makes the situation worse. Generally what I think is a good idea is to talk about something you are both interested in. Like for example I think you said you see her at the gym, then athletics or sports could be a good topic and maybe just speaking to her in passing at first then sometime try and strike up a conversation with her.

As for getting her number ect, well you need to talk to her and eventually the subject will come up or the situation will seem right to ask.

The important things are to be yourself and don't lie about anything, even if it seem the conversation would benefit from it at the time, you'll find you'll regret it at a later date.

Just act normal and cool and don't pressure her or make her feel uncomfortable and if she isn't interested well you need to cut your losses and accept that she wasn't interested and that there is plenty of fish in the sea.

Good Luck!!

[SimSailorNick]

First, try looking for connections with her. You have any mutual friends? Maybe you could talk to her in your gym class about whatever you do there.

Then of course get to know her more. The usual dating stuff. Haha.

[rachin2u42]

find some common ground and go from there

[Apollo.]

As everyone else has said try to find a common interest and start conversation. Also you say you are good looking but although that is the case don't come across as if you know you are. Every girl I know hates a guy that thinks he is everything (I'm not trying to offend but sometimes people that know they are good looking come across as full of themselves even if they aren't). The best thing you can do is just start talking even if there isn't much to say she will appreciate the effort

[maysen22]

Thx for the advice guys and girls! But what if she has friends with her?
And I only say that i am good looking because others have told me so, i hate braggers and people who are full of themselves so I try hard to not act like that.