Nervous

[ThePhill97]

Hi, I have a girlfriend now. Shes awesome.
Funny, kind, good looking and I can be myself around her... ON BBM (blackberry messenger)
The problem here is.. It takes us a while to start talking face to face.. I cant Just like... approach her randomly :/ What would I do and say?
We have talked face2face a few times before but thats when we were alone..
Bearing in mind we only see eachother on saturday and sundays...
So what should I do? I feel bad that Im nervous and so is she..

[West Coast Sheriff]

If you really care for her then you soulfnt be. Just don't think of whatever gets you nervous.
:D

[Apollo.]

If you two can't talk to each other are you sure your ready to be going out? I don't mean to sound bad but a girlfriend/boyfriend is meant to be someone you feel totally comfortable around and can be yourself with. It's easy to be friendly through text but if you can't talk face to face that's a serious problem in a relationship. If you really do like this girl and have feelings for her you should make yourself talk to her. Try meeting up just yourselves get comfortable with each other and then you will become comfortable being around others as a couple

[DerBear]

You say she is your girl friend right? Well I would think if she was your girl friend then you'd be able to talk to her face2face and online. What do you talk to her on BBM about? and wouldn't you both want to meet up when you can if you are in a relationship.

Honestly if you both can't face each other then are you sure it is time for a relationship, maybe both get used to each other then focus on building a relationship.

[LoveMe_HateMe]

If you can't talk to her face to face, or it seems awkward, go out on a date and go to the cinema - it doesn't require a lot of talking during the movie and then you have something you can both talk about :)

Good luck, and remember just be yourself.

Most importantly, have fun! :)