Do I have a bi side?

[The Mockingjay]

I've pretty much accepted I'm gay since like, May time, I've came out, had boyfriends, kissed a boy (and I liked it :P), but now I've started to notice I'm kind of attracted to girls... It doesn't feel the same as my attraction to guys. With guys, I find them smoking hot and literally would do everything (within reason) with one. But with girls it's more of a "Oh, she's beautiful!" or "Wow, she's so pretty." I don't like vaginas much, breasts are okay, but sometimes girls' faces and their eyes especially are really attractive to me. I wouldn't seek a girl to go out/kiss/more with but if an especially attractive one was flirting I might be tempted. Does this mean I might have a bi side? It's confusing me :P

[TigerBoy]

I can recognise a pretty girl but I wouldn't say I'm attracted. Some girls I've thought 'wow if only she was a boy'. There's a really cute kid I see in the showers at swim club who's only like 11, but again that's just recognising he's pretty, not lust.

I suspect you'd have to try it to find out. For me whenever I used to try to fantasize about girls it just went wrong as soon as breasts are involved (then their waists and bums are the 'wrong' shape, and as for genitals ... so not for me).

[nice]

I think you may be curious still because your really young like me so ar this ae are hormones are going crazy. I was in a situation sorta kinda like yours you may be bi you may not so don't really roll any posbilites out yet until you get older and you've settled down a little

[The Mockingjay]

Yeah, I reckon I might be going through a "gay-curious" phase. The idea of sex with a girl... interests me I think, but I don't know if it's good interest or not. I can be good friends with girls, but I have no idea if there's the romantic side to it. I don't know, but I'm much more sexually and romantically attracted to men. I guess I'll just have to see how things turn out I guess :P Thanks guys! :)

[West Coast Sheriff]

Maybe you arent necessarily attracted to these girls but you ate still able to recognize beauty. Maybe you are bi and are attracted to both. You could be panasexual which means you are attracted to a person based off the individual for who they are, reguardless off gender but that doesn't sound like the case here. Another possible answer is that being gay was just a phase you went through during the start of puberty and you are slowly starting to grow put of it. But I doubt it. It's most likely one of the first two answers I stated. :D

[The Mockingjay]

Another possible answer is that being gay was just a phase you went through during the start of puberty and you are slowly starting to grow put of it. But I doubt it.

Yeah, I'm 100% certain I like men, I doubt anything would change that now :P

[colz]

I can relate to this, I classify myself as 'gay' and I think it's normal, I mean 'straight' girls say other girls are beautiful and what not. It's just that everyone whether they realize it or not judges a person when they see them. I think many girls look nice and what not, but I would not say in 'love' with them. Those feelings are for men, because I cannot imagine doing anything with a girl really... All I can guess is that you are going through the same thing that I think a bit of people go through. Only you know for sure who you love, and it sounds like you like men.
Hope this helps and makes sense :)

[superstarB]

You just find them attractive does not mean you will want
to be with women if u say you are gay then you
would want to be with guys but if u might have a relationship
With a girl then u might consider your self bi