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Riku16
October 14th, 2012, 09:25 AM
Well, I like this guy, we're good friends, we're open with each other and it's always really fun talking to each other. Anyway, I think he's cute, and I have a crush on him, the thing is I can actually see a future with him, I can understand the concept of a relationship with him.

My point is I want to ask him out on a date, which seems a bit of a rarity these days. I have this perfect day planned where we go into this abandoned quarry (not as creepy as it sounds) and sit at the river bank, then we have a picnic and just sit and talk, listen to music and other stuff like that. I honestly think we would both enjoy it.

Well, I want to ask him out but the one thing is I'm worried this will bring up his history. There was this whole thing last year with his first boyfriend who he met online and it all went pear shaped. He took it out on me by like shouting at me on steam (the computer gaming instant messaging computer program thing). Anyway then he sort of didn't speak to me for like a few months.

So to cut it short, we're friends now and talk a lot, we enjoy each others company and I like him. I would love to take him out on a date but can never find the words. So any advice would be highly appreciated. Thank you.

P.S: It's not the guy mentioned in my previous post (the locker rooms), it all worked out and I managed to hook him up with a gay friend of mine. They are now in a happy relationship.

Ender
October 14th, 2012, 09:28 AM
Dude, go for it. You will regret it if you dont take the chance. It sounds to me like you have a good plan. I really wish the best for you and him. (:

Lotsofhumor.com
October 14th, 2012, 11:52 AM
JUST DO IT.

and here is another quote to encourage you...

"You miss 100% of the chances you don't take"
- by someone who is good at making quotes

West Coast Sheriff
October 14th, 2012, 11:59 AM
JUST DO IT!
And I hope everything turns out for the best. :D

Swagamemmnon
October 14th, 2012, 12:11 PM
I shall join the symphony of encouragement in the above posts. Really, all he can say is no