Fingered while sleeping.

[HalleyJ]

In the middle of the night last night my boyfriend started fingering my pussy. It was kinda annoying at first, but got better.


Girls: has your boyfriend 'touched' you in you sleep? Was it awkward?

Boys: did you do this to your girl? What did she do?

[Sean4U]

Have to add my comment here and say that that is JUST wrong....he basically took advantage of you ....not good....

[HalleyJ]

Have to add my comment here and say that that is JUST wrong....he basically took advantage of you ....not good....

I would agree with you, exept it really didn't bother me, I've been with so long, I feel it's good he still 'wants' me.

[OldSchool]

As long as everyone's having fun

[ReginaGeorge]

Have to add my comment here and say that that is JUST wrong....he basically took advantage of you ....not good....

I agree with this. If you don't want it for whatever reason, say "no, stop" straight out, don't just think 'well, it'll get better in a minute'. It is nice to be intimate with people and know that they want you, but you have to draw a line and tell them that your body is not a toy and that it belongs to you. Stay safe. :)

[OldSchool]

I agree with this. If you don't want it for whatever reason, say "no, stop" straight out, don't just think 'well, it'll get better in a minute'. It is nice to be intimate with people and know that they want you, but you have to draw a line and tell them that your body is not a toy and that it belongs to you. Stay safe. :)

She did say she started liking it...

[Scotland]

I've done stuff similar but I know my gf doesn't mind :) if she did she'd tell me, I don't see the problem if both parties are having fun.

-Scotland

[ReginaGeorge]

She did say she started liking it...

Yes, but does that make him taking advantage of her justified? Mm, no.

Talking through what you're comfortable with and what you're not comfortable with, what you'd like to try, and what you'd like to stay away from with him is essential when you're sexually active but not experienced.

[OldSchool]

Yes, but does that make him taking advantage of her justified? Mm, no.

Talking through what you're comfortable with and what you're not comfortable with, what you'd like to try, and what you'd like to stay away from with him is essential when you're sexually active but not experienced.

Generally if the girl tells the guy no (not a fake no but a firm real no)and he stops its fine. It becomes bad when he keeps going anyway.

[ackmedsgirl666]

my boyfriend has fucked me while ive been asleep but i was passed out and didnt feel anything

[ReginaGeorge]

Generally if the girl tells the guy no (not a fake no but a firm real no)and he stops its fine. It becomes bad when he keeps going anyway.

And what happens when he doesn't stop because he has the message "it's okay, she'll like it in a minute" etched into his head? Or if she girl is too scared to speak out because she thinks he'll leave her, or not love her as much, or just that she'll be overpowered?

[OldSchool]

And what happens when he doesn't stop because he has the message "it's okay, she'll like it in a minute" etched into his head? Or if she girl is too scared to speak out because she thinks he'll leave her, or not love her as much, or just that she'll be overpowered?

At that point it is bad, however, she can deal with it as she sees fit. Whether it be calling the cops or a jab in the nuts.

[StoppingTime]

Stay on the topic of the thread. Take side conversations elsewhere.

[rachin2u42]

never stayed the night so no

[Human]

you need to tell him if you don't like it

[kenny89]

my girlfriend would probs dump me if i did that while she was sleeping

[jak926]

Thats pretty messed up.

[tundravortex]

Boys: did you do this to your girl?yea
What did she do? she was happy mainly because it was her birthday,she was in the mood and because I had to give it back,she gave me a bj on my b-day in the middle of the night

[PinkFloyd]

I have done something like this, but not to that degree. I put her hand on my chest under my shirt so when she woke up, she would be like what the hell?

[Trinity_15]

i have done this to my gf and she pushed my hand away and i left it alone. i know when not to cross the boundaries

[GigglyAbby]

Girls: has your boyfriend 'touched' you in your sleep? Yes Was it awkward? Absolutely not though it shocked me

[Sharona]

I have a few times but not by a bf - sometimes it's nice and welcome to wake up to- sometimes it's scary and wrong