Why didn't my first bj feel good?

[bobisnotkee]

I was experimenting with my girlfriend and she went down on me. It was her first time, so I don't know if she was doing it wrong or it was me having problems. But all she did was put it in her mouth and bobbed her head up and down. But it didn't even make me hard! Like it didn't feel heavenly or however people describe it as. Do I need to see a doctor or is it just her not doing it right? I masturbate and ejaculate though..

[Conor_312]

i have never got one before but i would think that she would need to use her tounge alot more if she wasnt.

[justinglives]

She's just inexperienced, and u were prob stressed. Make out, play around, get at least semi hard. Then ask or hav her go down n u. Have her use her hand like she was giving u a handjob while she has u in her mouth. Have her cover her teeth with her lips, use her tounge, an dsucka little. That should do it for you.

[sdude]

You need to have a guy show her how....that's why guys give the best head...they know what and where to use their mouth & tongue on u..

[West Coast Sheriff]

I think it was just inexperienced and didn't know how to do it. But don't worry, she'll get the hang of it, eventually

[STLACE]

I was experimenting with my girlfriend and she went down on me. It was her first time, so I don't know if she was doing it wrong or it was me having problems. But all she did was put it in her mouth and bobbed her head up and down. But it didn't even make me hard! Like it didn't feel heavenly or however people describe it as. Do I need to see a doctor or is it just her not doing it right? I masturbate and ejaculate though..

Truthfully you're moving way too fast. It's clear to see you're a novice and are dependent upon stereotypes in order to "believe" how you "think" it should feel.

Another sign on you're believing stereotype is your logic of automatically thinking it didn't help you because she hadn't done it.

May I suggest you wait until your body and mind are more matured and in sync with FREE gained thoughts.

It'll take a while to feel how you should to understand how a bj should feel, but at least you'll know it may be "your thing".... As in liking it.

You need to have a guy show her how....that's why guys give the best head...they know what and where to use their mouth & tongue on u..

So very true!!! I play "nice" with my friends at school.

Don't post consecutively in the same thread. -StoppingTime

[Benm]

you probably just weren't in the mood if you weren't hard, or don't find her sexually appealing

[jamesscott]

Her first time she most likely wasn't doing it right, have her start u of with a good hj the go to the bj it will help i promise:P

[Sean4U]

Pretty much all that has been said...she was inexperienced....and you were probably nervous expecting what you hear....and yes, guys do better than girls, especially the firs few times cause we know what we would like....just relax and it will happen, there is nothing wrong with you OR her.....she'll get better

[JamExX]

I agree with what most people have said, shes just inexperienced.

[Mark Jackson]

she's a rook

[Aaron Y]

It goes with time and experience~

[zerosix22]

As what you have said,she still got no experience. Maybe if she had,you will be more contented. Let her watch porn or google some techniques.

[Agent 47]

you just need to tell her what you like and give her some guidences chances are she was nervous as hell. try going down on her fist so that will relieve some tension and loosen her up.

[justinglives]

I just had a thought.
Watch some oral porn 2gether and suggest u try "that."

[brandon121]

she was probably not that good haha

[klhohman16]

she is not experienced, just give her time and let her practice

[Jose]

He Man IM BIAND I JOT BJs FROM GIRLS ANE GUYS I HAVE FOUND THAT S6ETIMES U HAVE TO SHOW OR EXPLAIN TO THEM WHAT FEELS GOOD I WILL SAY GUYS SEEM TO GIVE BETTER ONES THINK CAUSE THEY KNOW WHAT MAKES THEM FEEL GOOD

[Troy35216]

if you say that someone "sucks at blow jobs" is that an insult or a compliment?

[Mirage]

she is not experienced, just give her time and let her practice

Please don't bump old threads.

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