Am I bisexual?

[amibi12]

Ok, so, i have a girlfriend. But...... I "think about" guys in a sexual way. AM I BI??

[Jaaawsh]

You could be, or you could just be curious. It's going to take time for you to find out though, it will all work out in the end though!

[amibi12]

Thank u Josh, that helps a bit.

[zerosix22]

I agree with jaaawsh.

[amibi12]

So the collective, then, is that ultimately it is up to me whether im straight or bisexual?

[Austin borda]

I am in the same situation:what:

[Apollo.]

So the collective, then, is that ultimately it is up to me whether im straight or bisexual?

I wouldn't say so, if you are bisexual though you could maybe choose to go with a girl instead of a guy? I'm not sure about that though because I'm not bi so I don't know how that would go for you. You may just be curious, do you have an emotional attraction to guys?

[justinglives]

I hate labels. I think everyone has the capacity to relate to members of the same AND the opposite sex equally. Its a matter of whether they admit it or not, and if they do if they are comfortable with their decisions. ((Eg: sex is sex. Hj/bj/vaginal/anal just feels good no matter what.)) Its how you relate afterward. I know a lot of guys who "experiment" but don't consider themselves gay or bi just because they do everything BUT make out.
Just relax and do what feels right. Forget the label.

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

I wouldn't say so, if you are bisexual though you could maybe choose to go with a girl instead of a guy? I'm not sure about that though because I'm not bi so I don't know how that would go for you. You may just be curious, do you have an emotional attraction to guys?

No, that's not really how it works. You can choose who you date, but you can't choose who you have feelings for.

So the collective, then, is that ultimately it is up to me whether im straight or bisexual?

Well the thing is, you can't choose your sexuality. Ultimately yes it is "up to you" but only because your sexuality is already there, inside you. It isn't a "Well I guess I'll be queer/straight/whatever," thing.

[DismaliciouSx]

I hate labels. I think everyone has the capacity to relate to members of the same AND the opposite sex equally. Its a matter of whether they admit it or not, and if they do if they are comfortable with their decisions. ((Eg: sex is sex. Hj/bj/vaginal/anal just feels good no matter what.)) Its how you relate afterward. I know a lot of guys who "experiment" but don't consider themselves gay or bi just because they do everything BUT make out.
Just relax and do what feels right. Forget the label.

Holy shit I thought I was the only one who thought this way, you my good man just restored my faith in humanity.

[West Coast Sheriff]

You ate either bi or just curious. Part of it is just hormones which will affect the way you think.:D

[Apollo.]

No, that's not really how it works. You can choose who you date, but you can't choose who you have feelings for.

I should have known that, sorry if I sounded ignorant there:whoops:

[jessehs]

I would say the best way to deal with it is to explore it more, maybe watch gay adult films and see what you think

[rachin2u42]

it depends... you could be... or just interested in whats out there

[LoveMe_HateMe]

At the end of the day, you are young, you have your whole life ahead of you to explore. I wouldn't worry about it too much, just have fun, enjoy yourself and everything will fall onto place. It's what I did and am now happily together with my girlfriend fir over a year ancient a half.

Don't worry about stereotyping and labeling yourself. There's enough people out there who will do it for you!

Either way, have fun and good luck! :)

[Eliza Snark]

You need to take into account that there's a difference between emotional attraction and physical attraction. Sexuality isn't black and white, and it's normal to get curious and want to explore new things.