Luke100
October 12th, 2012, 06:12 AM
There is a guy in my school who i really like and admire deeply although we have never had a strong friendship bond nor have had a long conversation between each other. I'm gay and he's a complete straight guy and were both in year 9 and we have two classes that were in this year.
I don't know how to start but i guess you'll get to understand my feelings of sorrow and pain throughout.
I really like him and I've got no other words to explain it but "loving someone who doesn't know you, hurts so much to even think of him". In school we barely have anything connected nor have even had a long talk. Once in Art class he complimented my work but i'm not sure how that would had meant and at some point he had borrowed my stuffs, but that's all there is. During at recess and lunch we just get to look at each other, him not knowing that i die to have a talk to him. To be honest i don't know how to approach him nor how to start a talk and make it long. Usually i wait for the person to approach me but then that'll lead me to a broken hope.
Right now i don't think he and i have any similar interest and hobbies aside that were both in the same classes. He plays in x-box and he's with his groups of friends which makes it even harder for me to approach him and he talks about things that I don't usually talk about. On the other side, i'm the kind of person whom is sensitive and shy, easily get nervous (especially when i talk to him) and i don't have nor had played x-box.
All i want is for us to be friends at first and to have a bond of like friendship. I barely have any friends (true friends) although people in my school respect me and are nice to me (most of his friends are those kind of people who are nice to me but we don't really talk much). My friends had helped me to approach him but none of any moments i tried to approach him because of my nervousness and shyness always takes the better of me leading me not to approach him. Beside if i do approach him i got nothing to talk about with him, i don't know what to ask nor what to talk about that'll make him interested. I kinda have acted "girly" well he probably know i'm gay cause the way i talked and the way i sometimes acted toward people, but i'm no slut or any kind of gay people who dies for love, my personality still explains me even though i'm gay.
Now lets cut to the chase..
- I need help to approach him successfully and to make him interested in out talk
- i need help of what kind of things i should talk with him about
- i need help to get over my shyness and nervousness (please provide suggestions how to help me with this one)
- I need help of when and where to approach him (right moment to approach him)
- i need help of clarification of that would he like me or not (~simple question~ would he like me or not based on what you have read)
- what should i do in the conversation? (should i compliments and .... please provide keys examples)
- How can he like me and be interested in me?
- Back to the question, Is there a chance we will be great friends? (unlikely or likely or 50/50)
P.S please help me with these question, you don't know how this means so much to me when you answer it. It would be appreciated if you would go into any detailed answers nevertheless any answers would be great. I only hope for help, so please have compassion
I don't know how to start but i guess you'll get to understand my feelings of sorrow and pain throughout.
I really like him and I've got no other words to explain it but "loving someone who doesn't know you, hurts so much to even think of him". In school we barely have anything connected nor have even had a long talk. Once in Art class he complimented my work but i'm not sure how that would had meant and at some point he had borrowed my stuffs, but that's all there is. During at recess and lunch we just get to look at each other, him not knowing that i die to have a talk to him. To be honest i don't know how to approach him nor how to start a talk and make it long. Usually i wait for the person to approach me but then that'll lead me to a broken hope.
Right now i don't think he and i have any similar interest and hobbies aside that were both in the same classes. He plays in x-box and he's with his groups of friends which makes it even harder for me to approach him and he talks about things that I don't usually talk about. On the other side, i'm the kind of person whom is sensitive and shy, easily get nervous (especially when i talk to him) and i don't have nor had played x-box.
All i want is for us to be friends at first and to have a bond of like friendship. I barely have any friends (true friends) although people in my school respect me and are nice to me (most of his friends are those kind of people who are nice to me but we don't really talk much). My friends had helped me to approach him but none of any moments i tried to approach him because of my nervousness and shyness always takes the better of me leading me not to approach him. Beside if i do approach him i got nothing to talk about with him, i don't know what to ask nor what to talk about that'll make him interested. I kinda have acted "girly" well he probably know i'm gay cause the way i talked and the way i sometimes acted toward people, but i'm no slut or any kind of gay people who dies for love, my personality still explains me even though i'm gay.
Now lets cut to the chase..
- I need help to approach him successfully and to make him interested in out talk
- i need help of what kind of things i should talk with him about
- i need help to get over my shyness and nervousness (please provide suggestions how to help me with this one)
- I need help of when and where to approach him (right moment to approach him)
- i need help of clarification of that would he like me or not (~simple question~ would he like me or not based on what you have read)
- what should i do in the conversation? (should i compliments and .... please provide keys examples)
- How can he like me and be interested in me?
- Back to the question, Is there a chance we will be great friends? (unlikely or likely or 50/50)
P.S please help me with these question, you don't know how this means so much to me when you answer it. It would be appreciated if you would go into any detailed answers nevertheless any answers would be great. I only hope for help, so please have compassion