I want to crossdress!

[Prince Jellyfish]

I can't take it anymore; I have to tell somebody. I can't without clarifying first, though. See, I'm straight. I always have been and I always will be. It's written down in my genetic code so it's not like I can help it. But here's the thing: I can't get over wanting to crossdress!
Not just once either, I want to do it on a regular basis! I want to be passable! I want girls AND guys to check me out! Not that I'd be interested in guys, but I'd be damn flattered, that's for sure. I'm so confused.
I have only two friends that know about this and both are very supportive, but what about everyone else? How do I deal with this?:confused:

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

I think thats not such a big deal. I would support a friend if they felt that way.

[byee]

I can't take it anymore; I have to tell somebody. I can't without clarifying first, though. See, I'm straight. I always have been and I always will be. It's written down in my genetic code so it's not like I can help it. But here's the thing: I can't get over wanting to crossdress!
Not just once either, I want to do it on a regular basis! I want to be passable! I want girls AND guys to check me out! Not that I'd be interested in guys, but I'd be damn flattered, that's for sure. I'm so confused.
I have only two friends that know about this and both are very supportive, but what about everyone else? How do I deal with this?:confused:

Sounds like you need alot of attention! There are lots of ways of getting this, and cross dressing is surely one of them! But, consider that the attention you get might not be the kind of attention you want. What your urging to do is pretty extreme.

Try to think why you need this much attention that you'd do something that is potentially rather disasterous socially. Where does it come from? What's it about? Then, try to come up with other ways of either getting some of that attention, or perhaps better still, do somehing else altogether so that you don't need all that attention in the first place.

[irhmrh]

I think thats not such a big deal. I would support a friend if they felt that way.

heck i would join

[Trickster]

IAMSAM is right its probably just supreesed attention yearn. its great you have to supporting friends. Yous should try and crossdress with your friend at your house and see how you feel in it. If you like it then you like to crossdress but if you feel like you want people watching then you probaly want to attention.

[Prince Jellyfish]

It isn't about attention. I've put on women's clothing is private and the feeling is...It's just really awesome.

[A.J.]

well most crossdressers are straight and its fine. ive worn a thong once or twice ;) lol

[Prince Jellyfish]

Any specific tips for HOW to cross dress? I'd really like to pass =[

[Camazotz]

Buy short skirts, skirts, blouses, and tight shirts I guess? I really dont know of cross dressers, but thatd be my guess

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Well, its hard to pass as a women(Adams apple). Stuffing for breasts, shave legs, that kinda thing id assume.

[RaisingSand]

I think if you feel that way you should just go with it. :) As long as it's something you do in private, because as we know, people can be extremely judgemental about that kind of thing, including parents.

[Serenity]

I think if you feel that way you should just go with it. :) As long as it's something you do in private, because as we know, people can be extremely judgemental about that kind of thing, including parents.

Well that's like saying it's ok to be gay as long as you stay in the closet forever so people don't judge you. No one can ever ask for universal acceptance- as long as you accept yourself, you shouldn't hide who you are to suit the rest of the world.

[Prince Jellyfish]

Thanks guys =]
As soon as I'm done with gym class next semester I'm going to start shaving my legs ^_^

[RaisingSand]

Cool? :)

[Prince Jellyfish]

Cool? :)

Way cool.:cool:

[Pighead]

I say go for it!

[Sogeking]

wanting to crossdress!:
what is crossdressing?