i dont know what to do

[ssgliberty]

so there is this girl that i really like and we have hung out before and shes fun to be around and shes beautiful and i asked her out thinking she was still single and she said she was dating someone else and hasnt talked to me since what do i do?

[HalleyJ]

You have hung out, right? Try to keep a friendship, it is more important than a relationship and if you can keep it and she is 'avalible' you can have both a good friendship and a relationship with the person you really like.

[ssgliberty]

well ive texed her saying wats up but i never get a response since i asked her

[FreeFall]

She's probably avoiding you. Could be something like this;
a) why be friends with someone that wants to be more? That's cruel to them, like hanging a bone in front of a dog just barely out of its reach.
b) respect for the one she's dating. I would go ballistic if my boyfriend were to maintain a relationship with someone that had strong feelings for them, so maybe she's severed ties with you. It's just respect for the one she's dating, respect for the relationship she's in, and there's no need to put herself in line for your advances if any were to happen.

My advice is to leave her alone. I could be wrong, she may text you back, but for now just let it be. She's taken, she's aware you like her, don't put yourself through that stress (:

[Apollo.]

She's probably avoiding you. Could be something like this;
a) why be friends with someone that wants to be more? That's cruel to them, like hanging a bone in front of a dog just barely out of its reach.
b) respect for the one she's dating. I would go ballistic if my boyfriend were to maintain a relationship with someone that had strong feelings for them, so maybe she's severed ties with you. It's just respect for the one she's dating, respect for the relationship she's in, and there's no need to put herself in line for your advances if any were to happen.

My advice is to leave her alone. I could be wrong, she may text you back, but for now just let it be. She's taken, she's aware you like her, don't put yourself through that stress (:

Yeah, I totally agree with freefall, I ended up on the opposite side of this one time, staying friends with a girl I had told I liked, we stayed very close and she was always lying to her boyfriend to see me, it got to a stage where I had to stop talking to her because I felt bad for him. It's better to just move on if you have feelings. In my experience you always end up being the guy they go to when they argue with their partner. If you think you could suppress your feelings while she is in the relationship then friends can work but most guys find that hard.

[Mondevil]

You're problem was that you asked her out before you knew if she liked you. There are plenty of ways to know. Read 120 body language signals that she likes by Nicholas Jack. It's best to know if she likes you before gambling on verbalizing something that can ruin your friendship.