View Full Version : Is it ok to j/o with this friend?
NikosamA98
October 10th, 2012, 10:33 PM
I have j/o with my stepbrother before (not experimented) ant it is ok, but i have a friend and he is Bi (according to him) and he tells me that he wants to j/o with me but he asks me every time if i wuld let him do a b/j or things like that and i am really scared he passes the line...i am straight but i am curious and i really dont like what he wants to do... so i need some advice please!
West Coast Sheriff
October 10th, 2012, 10:39 PM
I think you should tell your friend that you want to stay in your comfort zone. It's okay to Jo with him but tell him you want to wait and see how that goes before yo want to take anything further. It's all okay along as you stay in your comfort zone. :D
STLACE
October 10th, 2012, 10:42 PM
If it really doesn't bother you then what's there to be afraid of? Esp since you're curious yourself. How else are you gonna be able to explore your curiosity? Would you rather it with a friend OR someone you don't have as much trust with.
zerosix22
October 11th, 2012, 04:46 AM
you need to talk to your friend about it. if you're not comfortable with it j/o with him then maybe he'll understand.if he asks you about b/js think thoroughly first before you answer. just remember that if you are curious, that is the time when you can explore the things u want to know. :)
Coolboi
October 11th, 2012, 04:56 AM
if you don't like it tell him to stop it ! if you want to experiment there is your chance . it's all up to you if your comfertable than have fun
Giles
October 11th, 2012, 12:27 PM
It's entirely your choice. If you want to experiment with him, and he does too, then go ahead. However, don't do anything that you don't want to do just because he is asking/pressuring you into it. I'm guessing you're a virgin, so doing this sort of thing with a friend isn't what you want to be doing.
Also bear in mind that anything you do with a friend could potentially strain your relationship, it could make everything awkward to the extent that you fall out. Carefully consider the possible problems before you go ahead with anything.
redtukr
October 11th, 2012, 12:59 PM
There's a diff btw being curious and crossing the line
joeyiselsewhere
October 11th, 2012, 08:20 PM
If you don't want to do it, tell him that, or tell him what you're confortable with.
uberwhal3
October 11th, 2012, 09:12 PM
If you do it more than once, it's kinda gay.
Robinblake
October 11th, 2012, 09:18 PM
If you are comfortable with it go ahead but if he goes too far just stop.
jokermaster101
October 11th, 2012, 10:12 PM
ok just tell him where your limits are. he has to respect your decisions. my jerk off buddies and I each have our own limits and we do not cross the line if we are asked not to.
im sure your friend will understand
skikid22
October 12th, 2012, 05:08 PM
y would u give up a bj
garrettu
October 12th, 2012, 05:46 PM
Just tell him that u don't wanna suck him off lol
thesurferdude
October 13th, 2012, 09:37 AM
if it makes you uncomfordable i wouldnt do anything
superstarB
October 13th, 2012, 01:00 PM
Just talk with him
If you are uncomfortable then you need to tell
him
PubertyBoys
October 13th, 2012, 04:20 PM
Well I have j/o with a friend, Infact Ive done more than that, and I really enjoyed it all the times. However if you do not like what he wants to do, then you need to respect what you want and just tell him straight up that you will not do what he wants.
Sean4U
October 13th, 2012, 05:29 PM
Just do what YOU are comfortable in doing....i dont' see a problem with jacking with a friend and i've done that and more....but you have to do what you feel YOU want to do .....tell him and set the limits then see what happens if you like it or not
alexkun
October 18th, 2012, 04:22 PM
i think its fine if you let him do it, it wont hurt you, besides, it feels really good and you'll get to know what its like.... then you can decide if you continue doing it or not..
Lost in the Echo
November 11th, 2012, 08:43 AM
Just tell him you're fine with jacking off with him, but not giving/receiving a BJ with him. I think he'll understand :)
Malzahar
November 11th, 2012, 10:18 PM
Just do what you are comfortable with. I for one love bj's. But if you don't want to then don't. He can't force you to do anything
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