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TaylrJ
October 10th, 2012, 03:55 PM
I am 15, and like this guy who is 14. I am also bi and I think he is gay. You can know more about the relationship between us if you read the second paragraph here: http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=153137 . We aren't out to eachother, we just always flirt and stuff like that. Monday night, we went out to eat together. Then, he acted even more gay towards me then he usually does. I even did all of the stuff back! Everything was going real well. But I was moved away from him in one of the two classes we had together a week ago. It left him with some other guy to talk to. He is starting to do the exact same stuff with him as we did in the very beginning. It is sorta worrying me. Like I am afraid of loosing him. Ever since Monday, he has never replied back to my texts. For example, to play along one night, I sent him a text that said "Hey babyyyyyy", then got no reply. Same with today, I asked him a question and he didn't reply. I just don't get it. We still laugh together and all that stuff. I just get a sense I am annoying him.

What's better though is tomorrow I am going to be moved back, someone else took my spot for getting in trouble. That means it is going to be me, him, and the other kid he talks to now will be sitting together. What's weird though, is this kid has no signs of being gay at all. It's sorta funny cause he gets freaked out with some of the gay and flirty stuff he does to him when I am not sitting there. He also wants to be friends with me, he says I am funny. Anyways, starting tomorrow, I hope that things start getting back to normal. Some of the flirty stuff we are doing together is getting old though. To make it fun again, what should I do? How can I keep things new and get us to start talking again because the past few days have been getting very boring with him, and I don't know why.. Can you help? Thanks..

Apollo.
October 10th, 2012, 04:09 PM
I'm not an expert and this is probably a bad idea but how about you let him do the chasing? When you move back talk to the other guy and wait to be spoken to by him, if he realises your not exclusively his he might treat you better

TaylrJ
October 10th, 2012, 04:18 PM
I'm not an expert and this is probably a bad idea but how about you let him do the chasing? When you move back talk to the other guy and wait to be spoken to by him, if he realises your not exclusively his he might treat you better

Great idea! I have thought about the "playing hard to get" thing before. I just wanted to show him I liked him. I'll wait for him this time. I think your right though. I'll do that tomorrow. Thanks!

redtukr
October 12th, 2012, 06:05 AM
play hard to get let him learn about u from ur friends

Mondevil
October 12th, 2012, 08:21 AM
or you could play the jealousy card, basically do what he's doing to you