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Neymar11
October 10th, 2012, 05:55 AM
Okay,

I'm 15 (Boy) and in a few weeks time I have a school formal, at the moment I have nobody to take, I am confident with girls and am fairly good looking (So i have been told). The only person which I am considering taking is an old friends sister. Me and the friend went to school 5 years ago and I am attracted to her sister, we have spoken on one or two occasions. The girl that I know is in a relationship and the sister is single. I see her once a week and I need to know how I can approach this!

Any help is appreciated, thanks!
Fire16rescue
October 10th, 2012, 11:49 AM
When you see her once a week what do you mean? Just a hello or do you spend time with her? How much do you talk?
DerBear
October 10th, 2012, 02:45 PM
We start of by being yourself. No point in trying to be someone else.
Second of all you need to be honest and just ask her. It will be hard and even awkward but it is natural. The worst she can say is no and then if she does then you need to accept that and move on.

I can't really give advice on asking someone out but I guess it is like jumping into a cold pool, you need to take a deep breath and then take the plunge and ask. You'll be nervous but that is to be expect. Just act confident and ask and then see what she says.

Good Luck.
Apollo.
October 10th, 2012, 03:10 PM
Just be yourself, tell her you like her and that you find her attractive (girls love compliments) then gauge her reaction to that and if you think the times right ask her to go with you. Have you spoken to your friend about taking her sister though? Some people could be kind of funny about that.
Neymar11
October 11th, 2012, 04:45 AM
Okay thanks for the help so far guys,

I see her once a week after school but we dont meet up we are just at the same place, I havent spoken to her for a while.
Mondevil
October 12th, 2012, 08:35 AM
Just look for signals that she likes you, then ask her. Don't even risk her saying no
Sam98c
October 31st, 2012, 04:35 PM
I am cuurious to know what she said? And for that post in july about your friend for 3 mmonths, what all happened that day?
Taryn98
October 31st, 2012, 10:06 PM
Just ask her directly to go. Quick and to the point is easiest.
Smeagol
October 31st, 2012, 10:10 PM
I agree with Taryn. Going to the semi formal will be fun. If you asked and I was single (and you are a nice guy) I'd go and have fun. I'd not necessarily have a long relationship, but spending a night as your date. That's what my reaction would be if I was her. Good luck :3