How...?

[fallenLethal]

There isn't a single guy that's open in my area... I've gone 3 months without a relationship (with another guy), and it's killing me. What should I do?

[Dangoblin]

Honestly, I think you should surround yourself with family and friends! Then maybe out of the blue you'll end up bumping into your next boyfriend. Just be happy that you've had a boyfriend. People like me would do anything to be in a relationship with a guy since they've never had one before. I've learned that when you do fun stuff, it takes your mind off of the whole scenario. I will admit, it doesn't constantly keep the thought away, but it keeps it away enough to manage.
Best of luck!

[fallenLethal]

Thanks, the support helps at least.

[Apollo.]

I'm pretty much the same here I briefly met a gay guy through a friend about a month back and I hated him lol. I think there must be people near me that just aren't out maybe when they realise you are gay more will approach you. I've gone 18 years having sort of fake relationships with just girls when I really wanted a guy! So it could be worse than 3 months just be patient and it will happen eventually

[Lyra Heartstrings]

You don't need a relationship. Like Dan said, surround yourself with friends. Soon enough, you'll meet someone amazing who will unconditionally love you. :)

[fallenLethal]

You don't need a relationship. Like Dan said, surround yourself with friends. Soon enough, you'll meet someone amazing who will unconditionally love you. :)

Patience is an ass, though I get what you guys are saying.

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

I my opinion, if you feel such a need for a relationship... you aren't ready for one.

You should be able to find happiness in yourself and fulfillment in your own life.

A little philosophy I have on love is that you should find happiness with someone, never in them. (That's not meant to be a sexual innuendo, but it can double as one)

[MartyG]

Hi,

Yeah it's tough to say without knowing just what your area has to offer. If you are out in your school and/or if there is a gay organization in your area I assume you have taken advantage of those sources?

Three months is not really that long; not for a relationship. I wish I could bounce back after such a short time.

How have you found your previous b/f's?