To the Ladies....PLEASE Answer!!!

[stu22]

so ladies i was just wondering, i am a college student and when i go to parties i dance with girls. when i am grinding with them i happen to get a little aroused and get a boner. I was wondering if u could tell me what is a girl thinking? is she just outright disgusted or what? can u ladies help me shed some light on this question

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Well I'm sure most of them don't like it! But when they dance like that THEMSELVES (with us) what can we do. They have to realize we're only human, and they're really pushing our buttons when they do this!

[Maverick]

Well I'm sure most of them don't like it!
What makes you think that?

Unless the girl is a lesbian I doubt she'll be disgusted. :P You are after all with college girls who are older and know how the male body works.

They'd probably only be disgusted if you randomly went up to them and did that by accident but if they're dancing with you and are aware, they should expect that to happen.

[Wiszbone77]

wat helps alot is when u rly dont think of sexual things, like omg i wanna fu*k this girl outright...try thinking of really old nuns, works for me =P

EDIT(misread the question Ant, but if u wanna know how to stop it, there you go=D)

[Maverick]

wat helps alot is when u rly dont think of sexual things, like omg i wanna fu*k this girl outright...try thinking of really old nuns, works for me =P
Ummm he's not asking how to stop it, he just wants to know what the girls reaction is. :confused:

[mynameisjane]

its kinda gross to think of whats going on in your head but kinda flattering.

[Serenity]

They'd probably only be disgusted if you randomly went up to them and did that by accident but if they're dancing with you and are aware, they should expect that to happen.

There have been two times I've heard a girl be legitimately disgusted by a guy they were dancing with: 1) when he was a jerk that took advantage of her and was known for hooking up with everyone possible, and 2) when he actually came in his pants...twice....

lol so yeah, I think you're ok :P There's nothing wrong with it and nothing you can do about it, so there's no reason to be upset by it. Unless, of course, you're like guy #2 and get a little too excited...in which case I'd say you have a problem.

[scottyman]

ha wow if i knew this i would have kept grinding at the last party i was at

[Frosty]

just don't cum in your pants......

[irhmrh]

If a girl is danceing like that with u or anyone she is kinda trying to push ur buttons a little and mabey wants this to happen.

[Hyper]

Hmm knowing girls and women I can tell you they'd be flattered 50 times before disgusted.. As it would atleast indicate their attractive..

As long as your hands don't travel anywhere, where they are not given permission to travel.. And as long as you don't act like a fuckface, then all should be fine..

[RaisingSand]

I agree with ThatCanadianGuy. :D

[Glasgow]

wat helps alot is when u rly dont think of sexual things, like omg i wanna fu*k this girl outright...try thinking of really old nuns, works for me =P

EDIT(misread the question Ant, but if u wanna know how to stop it, there you go=D)


I dont think anyone will be thinking of an old nun when you have a good looking girl grinding you. IMO i think the girls would be proud that they are able to arouse you.

[RaisingSand]

Not all girls feel that way though. :/ Some are (for some bizarre reason or another) really insulted by it, some like it, and some are too drunk to care. XD

[close]

What makes you think that?

Unless the girl is a lesbian I doubt she'll be disgusted. :P You are after all with college girls who are older and know how the male body works.

They'd probably only be disgusted if you randomly went up to them and did that by accident but if they're dancing with you and are aware, they should expect that to happen.

hes right what else can i say