aghh Im stuck!

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Right well I broke up with my ex about 2 months ago now, it was the best relationship we had both had, but I still really like her.

Recently we have been getting really close again which has led to me liking her even more, but my mate was talking to her and apprently we will always just be mates.

I really dont know what to do- I cant seem to move on from her and Ishe never wants anything more than us to be close mates I dont think.

what should I do? :confused:

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Well, it doesn't seem she wants to get back together with you, but, its up to you, do you want to stay her friend, or leave her, and move on to new things. Keeping her as a friend is not a bad thing, and there are a lot of fish in the sea, I'm sure you can find another girl. But if you yourself want to find out (are you sure your mate is a viable source of information?) ask her yourself, whether you could ever get back together. Don't actually ask her out again, just ask her if you think there's still a chance. If she's unsure, give her time, if she says yes, then you're in luck, if she says no, then as I said there are always other fish in the sea. But again, whether you want to keep her as a friend is up to you, in my opinion you should, as it seems she is a good friend, and I think she'd be supportive of you going out with someone new. But if you didn't get the information straight from her that she doesn't want to be more than "mates", then you yourself should definitely ask her, a friend is not always a viable source.

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Cheers for the reply

my mate would never lie to me I can trust him.

I want to let her know how I feel, but I dont want to end up embarressing myself, and right now I dont want to moive on even though its the best idea to do

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Well, maybe you just need to stay stuck for awhile. No harm in that.

Everyone grieves differently, maybe your way is to hold on awhile. You're not ready to let go yet, that's okay. When you're ready to, you will.

As long as it's not preventing you from getting on with your other responsibilities (like schoolwork), or getting sseriously in the way of your sense of well being, this just might be normal for you. It'll pass.