annoyed

[nice]

Ok so most people I meet for the first time think I'm gay, some say it is because of my voice not being really deep some say because of how happy I can be at times. I'm a freshmen at my high school and this girl told me that she thinks I'm gay because I don't have a lot of guy friends but I have tons of girl friends and because I listen to pop music more than rap and other stuff. Do you guys think that I fit a gay stereotype or was she trying to be a bitch. I brush it off most times because I get it a lot but for some reason it stings a little when people at this school say it to me.:(

[Jupiter]

honestly, and let me explain afterwords. you fit in with the gay stereotype.


BUT THAT'S OKAY CUZ I DO TOO. listen, just because we like pop music and would rather hang out with girls and guys, and may lisp our s's a little bit doesn't mean we like men. the fact that i like men means i like men.

[nice]

honestly, and let me explain afterwords. you fit in with the gay stereotype.


BUT THAT'S OKAY CUZ I DO TOO. listen, just because we like pop music and would rather hang out with girls and guys, and may lisp our s's a little bit doesn't mean we like men. the fact that i like men means i like men.

Its times when I would rather talk to girls but its time when I would rather have a close guy friend to guys just for some reason don't like me.

[Jupiter]

Its times when I would rather talk to girls but its time when I would rather have a close guy friend to guys just for some reason don't like me.

my brother had the same issue too. he said he feels it's because people find us as a threat.

[nice]

Lol I'm no threat most of the times if I talk to girls more they are nicer than most guys and easier to talk to. And anyone who thinks I'm a "threat" because I actually listen to their girlfriends and can have a conversations without bring up sex and stuff like that(most of the time) needs to chill the fuck out.

[Jupiter]

Lol I'm no threat most of the times if I talk to girls more they are nicer than most guys and easier to talk to. And anyone who thinks I'm a "threat" because I actually listen to their girlfriends and can have a conversations without bring up sex and stuff like that(most of the time) needs to chill the fuck out.

exactly. thank you so much.

[nice]

I don't get why the girl thinks I'm gay though even if I do fit the "stereotype" I told her some people I like. She probably just wants me to be gay so she can have a gay best friend.

[Jupiter]

probably haha.


no really though, people assume things and say things that they don't think will affect other people, when in the long run it really does.

[nice]

Like it doesn't hurt me to the point to self harm or want to die but it is annoying and does hurt. They Ned to shut the fuck up and think I wonder if this actually hurts them or gives them a hard time.

[Jupiter]

yeah. dude just chop off their balls.


but seriously it's all just in fun. they don't really mean anything by it and in the end it doesn't matter what people think.

[nice]

Ik I'm at the point where its very few things you can say about me to hurt me but don't go talking about family or my friends.

[dontfiguremeout]

Most people would think so, but you know what, it's jerky people just judging people without actually knowing the truth! I mean if you don't want people to think about that, just tell people, or maybe start hanging out with some guys, and maybe start listening to other music. You don't have to listen to rap, there are other great genres of music you will like! Try listening to alternative music, because you'll notice it's like pop. yet it's not, but better! haha. I'm not saying change who you are, but I think you'll like some semi changes, and most likely people won't call you that anymore!

[nice]

I listen to rap rock and stuff like that I just don't tell everyone I do I tell them the type of music we have in common and I don't hang with guys because they don't like me.

[dontfiguremeout]

Well how bout show them that your a pretty cool person to hang out with. You don't have to go over the top to be noticed, but just talk to maybe one or two guys at school, which then will be like a domino affect.

[Jolty]

People says the same to me, because i have long hairs. But I like them. My friends like them. And i feel cold with short hairs.
You shouldn't care, they will stop after a while if you show you are not interested on what they say. With me it worked

[nice]

It doesn't stop though I've been called gay and a fag since 4th grade.

[fast8]

just be you dont worry about them

[nice]

Its a little hard to not worry when I have to be here for 4 years.

[Apollo.]

Don't change for them, just laugh it off if you know you aren't gay then does it matter what they think? I'm on the opposite end of the scale I am gay and I recently tried to come out and he laughed and didn't believe me!

[nice]

Don't change for them, just laugh it off if you know you aren't gay then does it matter what they think? I'm on the opposite end of the scale I am gay and I recently tried to come out and he laughed and didn't believe me!

That sucks if it was your best friend just kiss him or some other dude that should convince him ;-)

[Apollo.]

That sucks if it was your best friend just kiss him or some other dude that should convince him ;-)

Hahaha, I wish it was that simple! Although I'm sure I'll convince him somehow! But honestly with your problem don't let it get to you! If your comfortable with your sexuality it will soon work itself out when you get a girlfriend:D

[nice]

That's true I guess thanks good luck with your situation and just remember what I said about kissing people XD

[Apollo.]

That's true I guess thanks good luck with your situation and just remember what I said about kissing people XD

I will do:D, you should use your own advice and just kiss a girl that would prove your point haha!

[nice]

Ha I might try it.