The next step

[Clevdawg]

Ok well this girl i like and I just went to homecoming and she had a ton of fun. I think in total she has moderate interest in me, nothing extreme, but LOVE her. The thing is that she has a lot of other guy friends that she has known better and longer than me, maybe even like better. The thing is I feel if don't make a move soon, someone else will take her. My friend wants both of us to come with him and his girl to an amusement park/haunted house place near I live. I think it's a good idea but where would I go starting from there from what I told you?

Ugh well she's so busy all the time and can't go this weekend so I guess another thing to add to this is how can We manage being close even though we can rarely see each other

We go to different schools too so I dont see her everyday.

Ugh well she's so busy all the time and can't go this weekend so I guess another thing to add to this is how can We manage being close even though we can rarely see each other

We go to different schools too so I dont see her everyday.

Sorry double post


Posts merged. -StoppingTime

[Dangoblin]

Too bad she was too busy.. I was going to say to put your arm around her in the haunted house.
Do you have her phone number? Text her and hang out with her. Also, how long have you been friends with her? I dont want to tell you to ask her out the next time you see her if you've only known her for like a week or two.
Another thing, dont worry too much about the other guys shes friends with. Im friends with many girls, and i dont have any attraction towards them. (Keep in mind they dont know i am gay.) I've heard of girls that get guy friends because there is "less drama" so maybe she's one of those girls?

[Clevdawg]

Too bad she was too busy.. I was going to say to put your arm around her in the haunted house.
Do you have her phone number? Text her and hang out with her. Also, how long have you been friends with her? I dont want to tell you to ask her out the next time you see her if you've only known her for like a week or two.
Another thing, dont worry too much about the other guys shes friends with. Im friends with many girls, and i dont have any attraction towards them. (Keep in mind they dont know i am gay.) I've heard of girls that get guy friends because there is "less drama" so maybe she's one of those girls?

We have been friends for about a month and a half, not too long. I want to ask her out next time we meet but the problem is I don't know when that will be! Whenever I have asked her she either has something going on or says she already made plans. It seems as though right now we are moderate friends but I just need her to hang out more to truly feel comfortable.

[Dangoblin]

If she's busy, then ask her when shes not busy and see if you can schedule a day to hang out. Try to get her to go to a romantic movie ;). I would say, hang out with her and text her a lot (but dont become a creep and text her every minute of the day) and finally tell her how you feel about her.

Remember, the best guys unfortunately get friendzoned sometimes! Dont let that happen to you.

[Clevdawg]

If she's busy, then ask her when shes not busy and see if you can schedule a day to hang out. Try to get her to go to a romantic movie ;). I would say, hang out with her and text her a lot (but dont become a creep and text her every minute of the day) and finally tell her how you feel about her.

Remember, the best guys unfortunately get friendzoned sometimes! Dont let that happen to you.

I try to text her everyday or every other day just to keep in touch. I think I should try and tell her how I feel sooner than later to avoid being "passed over" in a way. I just asked her about this weekend, how soon would be too soon to ask if she's not busy on any other day to hang out?

[Dangoblin]

I don't really think any time would be "too soon". Just text her and be like, "Hey, since you can't hang out this weekend, is there any other day we could possibly hang out?".
Also, be careful about how you tell her that you have feelings for her. If you feel like you haven't known her long enough, then I wouldn't tell her. If you do feel like you've known her long enough, then go for it. If she does end up saying no, don't feel like its the end of the world. Maybe she just wants to get to know you a bit better before you start dating.