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TaylrJ
October 6th, 2012, 11:28 PM
I am 15, bi, and I like a guy who is 14, and I think he is gay. We are not out to each other, if he even is. And I also think he may like me. You can view the other forums I have posted to see what you think. Anyways, I think we both have a very strong friendship. Sometimes when we are hanging out, he will suddenly be hanging out with some other guys, sit or laugh with them and just ignore me. Like last night at the football game, this is exactly what he did. He ditched me to roll houses with some friends. I told him I was pissed at him then the next day he didn't reply to my texts. It even said "Read" at the bottom. He only replied when I cancelled plans for tonight because something came up. He replied back saying "It's ok, I am gonna be with someone else anyways." I don't think he's ignoring me because he finds me annoying or anything. Because right before the game yesterday, I was at his house because he wanted me to come over. And we were together about half of the game. Taking pics, laughing and sitting together, and stuff like that. Then, since he wasn't allowed to stay with me. He just ditched me so he could find someone else to stay with.

If he is playing "Hard to get", it is defiantly working because I am so freakin jealous. I know I need to stop being so obsessive and I am learning that giving space is a good thing. But what do you think? What am I doing wrong? I even asked him if he was mad at me, he said no. It's just I am so confused right now and need answer. Can you help? Also before answering, I'd like you to know more about mine and his' relationship. Second Paragraph: http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=153137
If you wanna really know more, read this: http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=153824
Anyways, Let me know if you read the other posts or not. Thanks!

Danny_boi 16
October 6th, 2012, 11:44 PM
Dudes don't stay mad at each other for very long. So for now give him some space.
Then you can continue on Monday, or whenever the school week starts.