Bored of relationship?!

[dok1218]

Ok so I have been going out with this girl for almost two months now but I get bored of her and I know it sounds stupid but this is how all of my relationships have ended up like since I stopped going out with this girl who I thought I was over but clearly I'm not. So basically none of the other girls that I have gone out with measure up to the girl who I thought I was over but I'm not. What the hell should I do?! I'm 16 By the way

[Gandalf]

You coluld talk to the girl you still like and rebuild those bridges although this is often much harder second time round, although speaking to her might be a good place to start, communication is vital for any relationship to work so if there is any chance you need to be open and honest with her.

Hope I've helped :)

[dok1218]

Yeah I think I'll try that, thanks :)

[dontfiguremeout]

Hmm what I think is best to first dump that girl. The relationship is now dead, because you lost interest in her, and you should not be leading her on anymore. Now next thing to do, is found out what type of girl you would want to be with. If it's for you to get back with that one girl, then go up to her and explain that you've tried to date many other girls, but they weren't the same as you.

[FreeFall]

First, stop seeing your current girlfriend. Then, figure out if your ex would be willing to give the relationship one more try. If she's completely over you and done, let it go and get over her.

[Dawn01]

You should ask your ex if she is not over you, like FreeFall said. But do you actually want to break up with your current girlfriend? If not, you should try to talk to her, make take things a little slower, and then you should try to do different things with her. If so... Just be fair to her and to yourself and break up, because it's not fair to continue the relationship if you are bored with it ;)