First time questions

[peteholloway]

Ok so basically me and my girlfriend are planning on having sex sometime soon like maybe in about a week and I definitely feel ready and so does she.

I just have a couple of questions:

1) The other day we just tried touching my dick at her entrance as it were and because my foreskin was pulled back and my head is really sensitive it was really quite painful for me. Just wondering if anyone else finds that the head of their penis can be painful sometimes and if there's anything I can do about it.

2) I was wondering if it'll hurt her. I've put one finger inside her and it didn't hurt her very much and she actually liked it, but I was wondering if it will hurt her and if there's anything we can do to minimise the pain?

Thanks everyone

[Giles]

It probably felt a little painful because of how sensitive your glans will be. I see that you're in the UK so I'm going to guess you're uncircumcised, meaning that your glans will be more sensitive than people who are circumcised - it shouldn't cause you any ridiculous pain or problems when you get down to it because the pleasure will outweigh the pain. That said, if it is incredibly painful then you might want to go and see a doctor, depending on your age.

Most women find that it hurts slightly the first time they have sex. It's a perfectly natural response, nothing to worry about. She may also bleed the first time, because of the hyman being broken, however, this won't necessarily happen because it can be broken in other ways - such as horse riding, gymnastics and other strong physical activities.

[Cycling Penguin]

I pull back by foreskin all the time and because I'm erect its a bit painful. After a while you get used to it

Also I finger and sometimes even. Fist my god and she sometimes gets abut of pain and bleeds but we are both having so much fun we don't really mind

[jean.auburn]

as giles said, it is because your glans is extremely sensitive. if you wear a condom (which i hope you will) its going to keep your prepuce from pulling on your glans and will prevent it from hurting. well it happened for me and it hurts when i dontuse a condom.