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Dark Blue
October 6th, 2012, 11:15 AM
So two weekends ago I had decided I was going to make an attempt to at least hint to my best friend I was open for experimentation. I told him months ago I started to j/o and him and two other of my friends were ok with it. He said he doesn't do it and I encouraged him to try it. He opened up and said him and our other friend who j/o watched a porn video together. So all in all he was open to conversation about never tried it.

Well ever since then are relationship has been the same if not better and we hang out a lot more than last year so far which is good. The last time I was over was a couple of weekends ago and as usual he'd hit me on the butt and just usual friend feeling type of stuff. It was around 1 am and he said he was really bored so I asked him if he wanted to j/o and he asked with some enthusiasm "Together?" and I said yeah but soon after he dismissed the thought completely.

Later that night or the next day (dont remember) he brought up me asking the question with laughter.

So my predicament is...should I try again next weekend or try a different tactic? Really confused on what to do >_<

DerBear
October 6th, 2012, 11:23 AM
This is asking for techniques/advice on how to get a friend to experiment with you which is not allowed. :locked:

One thing I will say, stop pressuring your friend and let him come to you if he wishes too, don't ruin your friendship or push someone into doing something they don't want to do.