View Full Version : Help, dad saw everything!
HalleyJ
October 6th, 2012, 08:49 AM
So tonight it was my bf birthday and I decided to give him his annual B-day BJ. Now you see, my parents know that my bf and I are sexually active and 100% cool with that, they sometimes even suggest position and stuff like that. But tonight my dad walked in on me and my partner, just as he came in my face. Now... I really don't know how to approach dad tommorow, what do I do?
Mortal Coil
October 6th, 2012, 09:14 AM
Just play it cool. Your parents seem pretty reasonable and the most awkward of situations will fade with time. Don't bring it up, but if he does then try not to seem too awkward.
Giles
October 6th, 2012, 02:04 PM
Don't do anything. Think of it from his point of view - you're his little girl - it was probably just as awkward, if not more awkward, for him than it was for you and your boyfriend. He may choose to bring it up and the best thing to do in that situation is probably to hear him out and listen to what he has to say.
Danny_boi 16
October 6th, 2012, 02:42 PM
don't do anything, he was probably more embarrassed walking in, the you where when he walked in.
Stephan
October 6th, 2012, 03:34 PM
If they are cool with you having sex and performing other sexual acts with your boyfriend, I don't think he is going do anything bad at you or say anything bad, I mean you have his approval after all.
He probably just walked in by accident not knowing the situation and was probably embarrassed. You should just act normal around him as if nothing had happened.
jean.auburn
October 6th, 2012, 04:45 PM
dont mention it. most people go with dont ask dont tell in those situations
boosterboy1
October 6th, 2012, 04:46 PM
Don't bring it up, it'll be super awks if you do.
HalleyJ
October 7th, 2012, 12:01 AM
He just got home from work and he didn't bring it up for awile, but after He talked to me about other thing he said he already talked to Jason (bf), I don't know what he said to him, but anyway... He went upstairs and on his way out he gave a door lock and written instructions on how to install it, lol. I love my dad.
Abyssal Echo
October 7th, 2012, 12:16 AM
Don't do anything. Think of it from his point of view - you're his little girl - it was probably just as awkward, if not more awkward, for him than it was for you and your boyfriend. He may choose to bring it up and the best thing to do in that situation is probably to hear him out and listen to what he has to say.
I agree with Giles :D sometimes the best thing to say or do is nothing.
justinglives
October 7th, 2012, 12:25 AM
Don't worry about it if he's cool.
he prob wnet back and hit it on ure mom.
HalleyJ
October 7th, 2012, 12:35 AM
Don't worry about it if he's cool.
he prob wnet back and hit it on ure mom.
I really doubt it they have reached 'that' age, lol
StoneColdNicky
October 7th, 2012, 01:20 AM
Haha, awesome outcome.
Inzanethingy
October 7th, 2012, 01:54 AM
Act like it never happened and dont say anything about it
Joshh97
October 7th, 2012, 03:56 AM
He just got home from work and he didn't bring it up for awile, but after He talked to me about other thing he said he already talked to Jason (bf), I don't know what he said to him, but anyway... He went upstairs and on his way out he gave a door lock and written instructions on how to install it, lol. I love my dad.
Haha thats great, being open with people is sometimes the best way, especially your family.
PGHTommy
October 7th, 2012, 02:37 PM
He just got home from work and he didn't bring it up for awile, but after He talked to me about other thing he said he already talked to Jason (bf), I don't know what he said to him, but anyway... He went upstairs and on his way out he gave a door lock and written instructions on how to install it, lol. I love my dad.
Wow.....quite possibly the coolest dad ever. Not sure i could be so cool if I walked in on my " little girl " getting a facial.
HalleyJ
October 8th, 2012, 12:21 AM
Mum decied to talk to me today about this, so dad must of told her. Instead of being all cool about it like dad, mum just had to give me this long and boring speech about how she loves me even though I am grown up now and other stuff. It was kind of akward, but luckily she didn't say anything about my facial. Jason told me what dad said to him and was generally a speech about treating me with respect.
West Coast Sheriff
October 8th, 2012, 12:27 AM
Just play it cool. Your parents seem pretty reasonable and the most awkward of situations will fade with time. Don't bring it up, but if he does then try not to seem too awkward.
Don't do anything. Think of it from his point of view - you're his little girl - it was probably just as awkward, if not more awkward, for him than it was for you and your boyfriend. He may choose to bring it up and the best thing to do in that situation is probably to hear him out and listen to what he has to say.
Yep!
Don't say anything or bring it up. As Giles said it was propably more awkward for him. But just play it cool and I hope the best for ya.
HalleyJ
October 8th, 2012, 12:37 AM
The Fbomb, can you please read the posts before you reply.
PGHTommy
October 8th, 2012, 03:12 AM
Mum decied to talk to me today about this, so dad must of told her. Instead of being all cool about it like dad, mum just had to give me this long and boring speech about how she loves me even though I am grown up now and other stuff. It was kind of akward, but luckily she didn't say anything about my facial. Jason told me what dad said to him and was generally a speech about treating me with respect.
Does he treat you well? Does him coming on your face make you feel less respected? If he does treat you well and you don't feel disrespected ( my GF actually gets turned on by facials) then please make sure HE knows this. I can only imagine how what your bf is going through!! He deserves a make up BJ with a little something extra, haha!
HalleyJ
October 8th, 2012, 03:22 AM
Yes he treats me very well an I love facails. My parents are cool and them and I don't where clothes at home, nether does my boyfriend when he comes over. He is asleep on the couch next to the computer, he was playing games on the IPad, but he fell asleep.
Sky Flower
October 8th, 2012, 03:48 AM
So I kinda hate you for how cool your parents are, I guess next time do the bday bj at his place haha.
Good to hear things turned out good, if only more parents were like that :P
PGHTommy
October 8th, 2012, 03:59 AM
Yes he treats me very well an I love facails. My parents are cool and them and I don't where clothes at home, nether does my boyfriend when he comes over. He is asleep on the couch next to the computer, he was playing games on the IPad, but he fell asleep.
Awesome.....
I was just thinkin that if my gf's dad had the " respect" my little girl speech with me, I'd be self conscious....
Make sure everyone knows that you don't feel disrespected
shani
October 8th, 2012, 01:00 PM
Just play it cool. Your parents seem pretty reasonable and the most awkward of situations will fade with time. Don't bring it up, but if he does then try not to seem too awkward.
true :)
Aajj333
October 8th, 2012, 08:26 PM
Well if they know you are active and stuff then he should be fine
kuperman11
October 9th, 2012, 01:13 AM
He just got home from work and he didn't bring it up for awile, but after He talked to me about other thing he said he already talked to Jason (bf), I don't know what he said to him, but anyway... He went upstairs and on his way out he gave a door lock and written instructions on how to install it, lol. I love my dad.
XD wow. im sure my dad would be (almost) that cool but my mom wouldn't.
zoe18
October 9th, 2012, 05:27 PM
Your family seem pretty cool, I would ignore it. Oh and dont come home with cum on your face anytime soon......
anyone50
December 27th, 2012, 11:19 AM
wow i was just thinking how my dad would react lets just say if that happened to me it would not be pleasant to be around my house for a long time so jelouse how cool your parents are wish mine were more like that
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