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Nameless
October 6th, 2012, 03:40 AM
Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a decant amount of time now and I think it's time to "take it to the next level" so to speak. I want to ask her about going to second base. Of course i don't want to do anything she isn't comfortable with but I just don't know how to bring this up in conversation and ask.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks.

Dawn01
October 6th, 2012, 09:05 AM
Say that you really love her and that you're in interested on trying to have sex with her, but say that you'd be ok if she's not ready yet :)

SpasticatedPengiun
October 12th, 2012, 03:49 AM
From my experience just say you're ready to take it to the next step but also say that if she's not ready then its ok, some women dont want to rush things and you just have to wait.

redtukr
October 12th, 2012, 03:55 AM
u have to look at it as if it was to go somewhere how far could it go b4 ur schedules would get in the way if that would be soon then idk bout taking nxt step

Mondevil
October 12th, 2012, 08:26 AM
I don't think you should verbalize something you want to do physically. Just go for second base slowly. If she stops you, she doesn't want to. If she doesn't then you are golden.