My friend wants to have sex with me

[Cycling Penguin]

My friend. (A boy) came over to me the other day and said he thought I was sexy and hot. He then started rubbing me and touching me and trying to feel me penis. Then he told me he wanted to have sex with me!
Part of me is freaked out by this but part of me wants to have sex and experiment with him
What should I do?

[HalleyJ]

Well I'm strait, so I don't know what you are feeling, but if a girl asked me to have sex with her, I would say no and explain that I am strait.

But, on the other hand... If you want too then to for it! During my first time, my boyfriend said too me, "do you want to have sex with me?" out of nowhere! At first I was shocked and out of pure confusion I sort of yelled, "what, now!?". And then the rest is, well... I bet you can guess.

[BrittneyB]

Don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable. If you really want to do it, you can put it off for while and think it over. But if you're ready and comfortable, go for it!

Ah its up to you. best of luck!:)

[IVIodern]

If you want to, do it. But if you think it would be too uncomfortable, don't do it.

[TigerBoy]

What should I do?

Whatever feels right to you. If you do try stuff, you may feel happier if you agree some ground rules : eg agree that if you aren't having fun, say so and take a break or try something different.

Personally I think its a healthy thing to experiment because understanding your own sexuality is a really big deal.

[Sean4U]

Olly and Peter are so right....if you feel you want to go ahead....but YOU have to be comfortable with it...its obvious he is or he wouldn't have asked....you have been on VT long enough to know that most guys experiment at one time or another....that isn't anything unusual or bad.....but do what YOU feel is right no one can or should pressure you to do something you aren't ready for or wanting to do

[HALO DE5TROYER]

i am straight. but it will be ok to experiment just becareful where u r doing it though

[DerBear]

Do what you are comfortable doing. If you feel very unsure now then I probably would advise not doing it because once you do it, it cannot be undone. You should wait awhile, even if you feel physically matured enough to have sex you might not be mentally mature enough to go ahead and have sex, therefore you might be more comfortable waiting until you do feel more mature.

Don't let 10 minutes of pleasure over shadow what you really want to do. Remember what is done can't be undone.

[jean.auburn]

I agree with Sean on this one. its only what you think thats important. in my case id say go for it but if youre not COMPLETELY sure you want to, dont do it.

[teenuser101]

I would just do it. If you like it then you can do it more often, if you don't then just dont do it again.

You will never know if you don't try!

[raiders9]

start out slow... mutual masturbation see where it goes dude

[West Coast Sheriff]

Just start slow(like masturbaiting) and see if that goes anywhere. :D

[lovergirl22]

My friend. (A boy) came over to me the other day and said he thought I was sexy and hot. He then started rubbing me and touching me and trying to feel me penis. Then he told me he wanted to have sex with me!
Part of me is freaked out by this but part of me wants to have sex and experiment with him
What should I do?

you should do what you think is right

[joliver]

i personally would do it, i would love to experiment. but its completely up to you

[fast8]

i say give it a try only do what you want to do an have fun doing it

[booboo22]

Do what you feel comfortable with, but I would say yes. Opportunities like this dot come around too often.

[svt time]

Tons of good answers! Go with your heart :)

[Overthetower]

My motto...
Never say 'what if'

Do what you feel is right and dont just 'go for it' but you dont want to say what if later in life...

[Overthetower]

My motto...
Never say 'what if'

Do what you feel is right and dont just 'go for it' but you dont want to say what if later in life...

[justinglives]

If youre horny and feel like you migght like it, go for it