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Olivia13Jane
October 5th, 2012, 07:03 PM
I'm trying to figure out my sexuality. I've always been attracted to guys, sexually and romantically. But recently, I've also noticed some of these feelings for another girl who I'm close friends with. I've felt the urge to kiss her a couple of times, but never anything farther. With guys, I've thought about kissing, romance, and sex, but with her, sex doesn't appeal to me. She's the only girl I've ever felt anything romantic for, so I don't know if I would fall under the 'bi' category.

dontfiguremeout
October 5th, 2012, 07:06 PM
Hmm, well just experiment! Don't label yourself right now, since your at the point of not sure who you are, so in the meantime, see what interests you! Once your done with puberty, then you can label yourself, because hormones have died down, and you can definitely tell what gender you would want to be with for the rest of your life!

BoarderGirl
October 5th, 2012, 11:23 PM
Hey, let me just start by saying, I've been here before. It's really common to when trying to figure out your sexuality to only feel one force of attraction for someone. I came out as bi to my BFF about a year and a half ago. I definitely agree with realgone, exparament! If your friend is into it who knows? You might even find a relationship there. And as far as not feeling the want to go farther than kissing, sometimes it's hard to wrap your head around new concepts until we are actually facing it so don't sweat it! Ps feel free to message me if ou need someone to talk too

emily-candace
October 6th, 2012, 03:32 AM
Don't panic over it, if you want to kiss her, go for it and see where it leads or doesn't lead. It's just experimenting.

Twilly F. Sniper
October 6th, 2012, 02:05 PM
Possible biromantic.

Magnus Bane
October 7th, 2012, 03:43 PM
Just ask her to experiment with if feel this romantic connection and time can only tell if it will work out. you can't label yourself right now. it too early if you started feeling this. if your bi then cool you should be proud:cool: