Mixed signals

[Alexwellace]

Well, as so many other stories go, It starts with a Girl. Shes so witty and smart and pritty and 'fit' ('cause she plays rugby with me on the team...what did you think i ment :P) and i would really like to try get a date with her. The problem is that she gives so many mixed signals, since we are good friends, i want to make sure its worth it before i dive in.

First she wants me to bike home with her, being all chummy and nice and a fair bit flirty, then when we split different ways theres no hug or anything, just a 'bye'. Then she says she wants me to hang out with her at dinner, which i do and she's being really flirty, almost begging me to ask her out signalaly (is that even a word???). I mean she was showing me her pants and kept gesturing to her boobs (Pink and frilly panties :yummy:) and then she KISSED me on the cheek. i was jus out to ask her out by joking around the subject then she said jokingly (i hope...) she'd never want to go out with such a good friend. Enthisis on Good, while downplaying the friend, dont know what this means.

She goes out with a lot of older lads, but im the biggest in my year and look the oldest. I gave you all the info i can, please help me decipher this Girl!

[Dawn01]

She could be playing with your emotions (many girls like to do it, it's so terrible!) or maybe she actually likes you... You should ask her about it, tell her about your feelings and ask her to give you a chance! :)

[dontfiguremeout]

Hmm, well a lot of close friends do this stuff! Reason why a lot of people think the best friends are going out, is because they act so close! A lot of people think I'm going out with my best friend, but honestly we are just that close that we do stuff like that! So I honestly think that's the main reason! But I mean if you like her, then go for her! I mean she's flirting with you, and I believe that is a sign saying she wants you. So your call if you wanna ask her out or not!