Dzemo
October 5th, 2012, 08:05 AM
So this is the situation.There's a problem in my home, and it's not directly connected to me, but i get really stressed about these situations and have my crises. So while my grandma has been cleaning mine and my sisters room, and \i guess she went through my sister's stuff in her drawers and found a box with some really old letters my sister had when she had broken up with her boyfriend (btw, she kept that a secret from everyone at home). So I guess she read them all, and then hid them somewhere, and my mum saw her reading something. Then one day my grandma told her she needs to give her something so that she reads it, and then my mum told my sister about this. Then my sis saw she was missing her box, and she told me about it. She searched for the box and finally found it, took the letters and threw the box.My grandma hadn't mentioned the letters to my parents. Everything was fine until at least a half hour ago. My grandma called my sister for lunch, and she was on the PC. And then my grandma started yelling at her, ''you're always on the computer, you don't help arround at home at all, bla bla'' and then they were fighting, and my grandma stormed off in the living room and then i heard her saying '' i'll see what you'll do when i give the letters to your dad''. my sister never actually heard that, but i did. Now I know what might happen, but my only problem is how I will deal with it. I can't do anything to solve the problem. I'm just really stressed now by thinking about it, all i need to know is how could I try to keep myself calm and not let the stress get to me in such a bad way. Everytime there's a fight going on at home, even though they don't involve me most of the time, i start worrying, getting stressed and nervous, and I just need a way to relax myself and not let everything get to me, so please if you have any advice i'd appreciate your help.