sexual identity problem

[ackmedsgirl666]

im curious about becoming a guy
i think its what i wanna be but i dont think my boyffriend would accept it even though hes bi. what should i do?

[West Coast Sheriff]

Talk to him a little more. That's all I can say for now. :D

[ackmedsgirl666]

Talk to him a little more. That's all I can say for now. :D

we talked about it and as much as he loves me he sees me as a beautiful girl and hes not sure how he would accept it if this is what i decide
i just dont wanna fuck up and lose him

hes said this to me

"um......... in time yes but probley easier as friends"

does this mean he would rather be just a friend
i dont wanna fuck up.. id hate myself for it

[West Coast Sheriff]

Well, try to think which means more to you. Him or your sexual Id.

[ackmedsgirl666]

him its always been about him
its just lately i seem to enjoy doing gay type of activities with him sexually which we both enjoy. i care about him alot and i wanna make us both happy
he just told me he wouldnt be able to be my boyfriend if i decide this

[FreeFall]

him its always been about him
its just lately i seem to enjoy doing gay type of activities with him sexually which we both enjoy. i care about him alot and i wanna make us both happy
he just told me he wouldnt be able to be my boyfriend if i decide this
Many girls strap on a dildo and have anal sex with their boyfriend.
It doesn't mean you have to be a guy to do it (: so just because it's seen as a sexually gay activity doesn't mean you've got to change your gender.

He's told you how you feel about it. But in the end it's how you feel. If you absolutely feel changing is what is for you, it really suck but that's what's going to have to happen for your sake of peace.

[dontfiguremeout]

Hmm, well I would have to say think about what's going to happen to your life. If you change, your whole life is changed. Plus you were made as a girl, and you should accept it. Maybe be a tomboy if you wanna act more guyish.