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Destinyforce
October 4th, 2012, 03:09 PM
Well this is what has been concerning me...

I am not sure if im gay/bi/straight. I don't even like introducing those words into my everyday conversations. I feel i don't know where to put my hands...haha, and i try to act as straight as possible so others won't be thinking anything. I also have a high pitched voice, BUT only seem to like guys when i'm aroused. Any help?

Desuetude
October 4th, 2012, 03:20 PM
Could you ever see yourself in a real relationship with a guy? Are you sexually/physically attracted to guys even when you're not aroused? If so, you could be Bi/Gay but really, I think we need more details and even then we can't be sure.

I suggest reading this (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=125182) thread. It might help you sort things out.

Edit: By the way, having a high pitched voice has nothing to do with sexual orientation.

Destinyforce
October 4th, 2012, 03:33 PM
Well i read the link, and it helped to some extent. I do believe, as of right now, im bi-curious. I like girls, but i do think some guys are cute. I am only 16, so this might jsut be hormones, but i believe it isn't.

Why i think im straight: I like girls, i want kids in the future. Strong sexual/emotional attraction to girls.

Why i think I'm Gay: Same sex turns me on. I imagine doing "stuff" with guys. I find some guys attractive. Although do not see a future with a guy.

Desuetude
October 4th, 2012, 03:37 PM
Well i read the link, and it helped to some extent. I do believe, as of right now, im bi-curious. I like girls, but i do think some guys are cute. I am only 15, so this might jsut be hormones, but i believe it isn't.

Why i think im straight: I like girls, i want kids in the future. Strong sexual/emotional attraction to girls.

Why i think I'm Gay: Same sex turns me on. I imagine doing "stuff" with guys. I find some guys attractive. Although do not see a future with a guy.
Sounds like you've got it, Bi-Curious is what I'd say you were. If you don't see anything further like a relationship with a guy then it's unlikely that you're anything more than Bi to be honest, I wouldn't think even that.

I have to say though, labels shouldn't matter. Don't stereotype yourself or try and fit into a particular group. Be yourself and be your best, that's all anyone asks of you, I'm sure you'll find someone if you're just honest about who you are.

Destinyforce
October 4th, 2012, 03:41 PM
Sounds like you've got it, Bi-Curious is what I'd say you were. If you don't see anything further like a relationship with a guy then it's unlikely that you're anything more than Bi to be honest, I wouldn't think even that.

I have to say though, labels shouldn't matter. Don't stereotype yourself or try and fit into a particular group. Be yourself and be your best, that's all anyone asks of you, I'm sure you'll find someone if you're just honest about who you are.
Thank you very much, +Rep :D