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mto5111
October 4th, 2012, 04:46 AM
I had a dream that i was sucking and jaking two of my friends. Am i gay or what. Im 13. Respond as soon as posibale thanks. O and i liked the dream

Lost in the Echo
October 4th, 2012, 05:10 AM
No you're not gay, you're just sexually curious about the same gender and that is normal for someone going through puberty. The cause of this is the puberty related hormones that everybody has to put up with during puberty.

Also it's very ironic and funny you post this and you have 69 posts :P ( no offense to anyone, just joking ) .

Like I said though you're just curious, and that's completely normal.

TigerBoy
October 4th, 2012, 05:12 AM
Doesn't mean you'll end up gay.

"gay" is a label, don't worry about it. If boys turn you on then enjoy. If girls turn you on, enjoy. You'll only find out in a few years after you've got some experience and worked out what you like and don't like.

There's also the whole emotional thing - some people like sex with the same gender but couldn't settle down. Some bisexual guys will enjoy sex more with one gender but emotionally connect more to the other.

Everyone's different, and your dream is a natural consequence of puberty. High hormone levels boost your sex drive over your teenage years so you could end up getting horny over all kinds of stuff.

I was lucky - it was only ever boys that turned me on and it became obvious early on that I was gay, but it isn't always that clear.

SmileyFace13
October 4th, 2012, 05:57 AM
no i dont think so...its just puberty...it nothing wrong about it

LolMeGusta
October 4th, 2012, 12:22 PM
I don't think you're gay,just dreaming about it(and liking it) doesn't make you gay...

Pyro99
October 4th, 2012, 02:03 PM
im 13 as well, and the sames happened to me, its hormones and sexual curiosity.

mto5111
October 4th, 2012, 02:35 PM
Bo, no offense I would have said the same.

president1234
October 4th, 2012, 05:33 PM
Gay is just a label, and is always said by people who are cruel and mean. Think about what you are personally thinking, everyone has dreams like this, I'm in a relationship with a girl and I have had them a few times. Everyone has them just decide what you are and what YOU want to be. It is YOUR life YOUR choices NO ONE can make them up for you.

StoppingTime
October 4th, 2012, 05:34 PM
:arrow: Teen Sexuality.

jhan3
October 4th, 2012, 06:35 PM
ur not gay don't worry about it

Memfreak16
October 4th, 2012, 06:40 PM
seem to be bi atleast...

Twilly F. Sniper
October 4th, 2012, 07:24 PM
I had a dream that i was sucking and jaking two of my friends. Am i gay or what. Im 13. Respond as soon as posibale thanks. O and i liked the dream

Probably just bicurious. Being actually gay or bi (I actually am the second) is much different than just sexual curiosity, Its being absolutely certain that you'd enjoy it. I had the same dreams the year before i discovered my sexuality, but then there were signs even, that I actually liked men. In this case there isn't, unless theres more to the story.

Magnus Bane
October 6th, 2012, 01:54 AM
Your fine you are a little bicurious so what it hapens to everyone. just if it is still there after puberty then you are probably bi.

heresravenclaw
October 7th, 2012, 01:16 AM
Sometimes I get sexually curious. I am totally straight but this is just puberty.