Really mom?

[xXoblivionXx]

I was eating dinner with my family. I had salad and I cut a tiny sliver of pizza to eat. Then my brother who is always telling me that I have problems (that I'm emo, that I'm bipolar) calls me anorexic I gave him the stare when my mom says "Anorexic? Look at her she has plenty fat to spare" I don't know who was worse, my brother or my mom. It just really pissed me off.

[xXJust Jump ItXx]

Im gonna say your mom being that was a pretty freaking comment of hers...

[xXoblivionXx]

It sucks :( Today is just not my day but I think I can maybe find a way to change that *puts on head phones and blasts music* let me mute the world from all of their cruel comment.

[West Coast Sheriff]

Sorry. My mom told me she wanted to take me to see a doctor because I'm not eating. Just know that our mothers are worried for us. And as for your brother, not to offend you in any way, just seem ignorant. Hang in there

[xXJust Jump ItXx]

Music can help...

[CyanideGoodnight]

Oh sweetie, I know how that is. I wrote an entire thread of how my aunt claims EVERYTHING I wear clings in all the horrible ways. I know it's hard. I know. Stuff they say still haunt me. I've barely escaped having an eating disorder time and time again because of them.

I'm gonna tell you a secret, though. You're pretty. I don't care what you tell yourself and what your parents tell you. Your soul is fucking gorgeous regardless of a fucking number on the scale.

[xXoblivionXx]

Sorry. My mom told me she wanted to take me to see a doctor because I'm not eating. Just know that our mothers are worried for us. And as for your brother, not to offend you in any way, just seem ignorant. Hang in there

Oh sweetie, I know how that is. I wrote an entire thread of how my aunt claims EVERYTHING I wear clings in all the horrible ways. I know it's hard. I know. Stuff they say still haunt me. I've barely escaped having an eating disorder time and time again because of them.

I'm gonna tell you a secret, though. You're pretty. I don't care what you tell yourself and what your parents tell you. Your soul is fucking gorgeous regardless of a fucking number on the scale.

thank you both so much :hug:

[CyanideGoodnight]

<3 no problem, you know we're always here to support you and give you that extra picker upper :)

[Noirtier]

That's horrible hun... They're unbelievably ignorant and it just makes me sick that they would even say such things... Do they not think at all? If you need to talk, I'm here for you.. :hug3:

[Lost in the Echo]

I'm sorry that happened, usually people who insult others are ignorant dickheads who are so self-conscious about their insecurities that they feel the need to insult others to feel better about theirselves. Don't let those insults bring you down, you are better than that. Ignore them, you are a great person.

[Mortal Coil]

Wow, your family is horrible to you. No offense, but that's just awful. Your brother is ignorant and your mother... well, she doesn't realize how much words hurt. Or she's in denial. Sorry that you're in this family, it sounds like they don't really see you as a human being.

[that-god-chick]

im sorry to hear that, thats hard coming from ur family but just remember ur beautiful and everyone hear at vt loves u and thinks ur beautiful... ur mum had no right to say that and being ur mum should have more respect for u and shouldnt even want to say that.. ur brother well siblings always say shit to one another its just the way it goes sadly, everyone does it to there siblings but that doesnt make it hurt any less or any worse. he should of said that... im sorry to hear this and i hope things get better for u soon, head up stay strong
xx

[Wayne92]

Im sorry that happened. People can be just down right ignorant when it comes to what they say, oblivious to how it hurts you. I have a so called "friend" that keeps calling me anorexic or a tooth pick, but he's like 300 lbs. Asshole... -_-"

[West Coast Sheriff]

Just today I got yelled at by my father for not eating as much as I should. Oh well.

[Electra Heart]

Dude our moms would be best friends, I know it feels like shit.

[Edawg]

I don't think your mom meant for it to sound mean, she was trying to help you

[Mirage]

Ohhh...I'm sorry.

I can imagine how shitty you must feel. I am always available to PM/VM so if you are feeling down just shoot me a message. :hug:

[Jupiter]

people don't understand how badly that truely hurts, babe. trust me, you're beautiful the way you are.

[xXoblivionXx]

Things aren't that bad anymore. My family just think I'm anorexic but I know I'm not so I don't really care anymore.