I've never...

[Blaahh]

I'm not sure if this is the right spot, but I couldn't find one any better.

Anyway, I've never ACTUALLY kissed a girl before, and I'm now in 10th grade. The only thing I can recall is when I was 10 years old and I was dared to kiss a girl real fast..and I hardly even remember it... It makes me feel like such a loser never have really done it before and I'm a sophmore in high school. Especially when nearly every one else in the grade has. It bugs me even more so that no one expects it from me; as in I'm not the nerd/geek type, and I'd consider myself somewhat popular seeing as I have quite a few popular friends. I just can't stand knowing in the back of my head that I have know experience what so ever with kissing or making out this late in my young adult-hood. What are people going to think? It's pathetic...ahh.

This isn't even really a question at all, I just needed to rant. Sorry. :[.

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Its not pathetic at all! Its normal! There is no rush! Many people are just like you:D

[RaisingSand]

(Just for reference, what year is tenth grade? XD)

And I agree with Yuri, that's not pathetic at all. ^^ Don't rush things, you may end up regretting them later (as in, getting a girlfriend purely for physical reasons).

[Silverfist64]

10 grade is at the age of around 15-16.

Its not pathetic at all not to know how to kiss. As some people stated before its something you have to learn to do by trying it. The more you do it the better you get.

[RaisingSand]

^I agree with Silverfist. That's not pathetic at all. It's really not. I know with like, friends and that at school, they try to give the impression they all kissed and done more than that with girls, and that's usually not the case at, some of them are probably in the same situation as you. :hug:

[Lifesreject]

I agree with angelina alot of people have probably exagerated what they have done with girls. I'm sure everybody has. A wouldnt worry about it there are lots of people in the same situation. I no someone older infact. He's 17. J ust take life as it comes and dont worry about it.

[Underground_Network]

I'm 14, and I'm a freshman in high school, and I don't think I've ever kissed a girl (except for, I think, 2nd grade), and half my friends have yet to kiss a girl too. I'd say only half the freshmen in my school have kissed girls. Its nothing to worry about, just wait for the right girl to eventually come along. Like Angie said, you don't want to rush anything.

[Serenity]

I'm not sure if this is the right spot, but I couldn't find one any better.

Anyway, I've never ACTUALLY kissed a girl before, and I'm now in 10th grade. The only thing I can recall is when I was 10 years old and I was dared to kiss a girl real fast..and I hardly even remember it... It makes me feel like such a loser never have really done it before and I'm a sophmore in high school. Especially when nearly every one else in the grade has. It bugs me even more so that no one expects it from me; as in I'm not the nerd/geek type, and I'd consider myself somewhat popular seeing as I have quite a few popular friends. I just can't stand knowing in the back of my head that I have know experience what so ever with kissing or making out this late in my young adult-hood. What are people going to think? It's pathetic...ahh.

This isn't even really a question at all, I just needed to rant. Sorry. :[.

I had my first kiss in 10th grade [last year] and yeah lol it, and the relationship, sucked a lot. So no worries- there'll be plenty of time and opportunity for kissing/dating/etc. And don't listen to people who 'expect' things from you because more often than not it's not an expectation but a challenge- and that's not the way you want to live in HS. Date when you're ready to date, not when other people want you to. What people think about you doesn't matter and should in no way rule your life.

[Octo22]

I had my first kiss last year (16-15 can't recall).

Then kissed/made out with a lottttt of women, I don't recommend it. ONLY kiss those who you truely feel for.

[close]

try having/going to a boy-girl party with no parents and sugest playing 7 minute in heaven if you want to know how to play PM me

[Gumleaf]

so what if you haven't kissed by year 10. i think its better to wait for a kiss that would be special to you rather then have one to "get the monkey off your back" so to speak.

[Blaahh]

Thanks for the support guys.

[mynameisjane]

i know exactly how you feel! but i'm a SENIOR! i comfort myself knowing if i wanted to be kissed, could just ask anyone because i know i'm attractive and people like me. but i have a very specific picture of what i want. i almost settled for less last year but i know if i dont really like them, than what is kissing but putting my mouth against someone else's? i dated someone who was less than what i wanted and it didnt mean a thing to me. i was disappointed that it wasnt magical like everyone says it is. but the only way for it to be magical is if you and the other person have that electric attraction towards eachother. so until i find someone who i share that electric attraction towards, i know that kissing, like dating, isnt going feel like anything, so theres no point. and theres no way to rush it so i'll just have to wait. you can't look for love, it has to find you. so theres no use in thinking about it.