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TaylorToo
October 3rd, 2012, 08:47 AM
Hey Yunz (it's a Pittsburgh thing)

I'm wondering if anyone else is attracted to or has been with an older guy? If so, how old? Or how old would you go? I'm really turned on by my older brothers boss and would love to jump his bones if I could! :wub:

Lorraine
October 3rd, 2012, 12:03 PM
I've never been with an older guy myself, but I've got all wet over one of my dad's friends. :D

Snookers
October 3rd, 2012, 02:01 PM
I'm always attracted to guys older than me ( with 1 to 3 years ) and I never look at those younger/the same age as me. But, since I saw Game of Thrones I started question myself pretty deeply. There are like, dudes between 25-30 years and I'm a sucker for them. I still have those weird phases.

OH WELL.

TaylorToo
October 3rd, 2012, 02:07 PM
It's nice to hear I'm not the only one! This guy is on his 30's and ever since he came to a pool party at my house this summer, I can't stop fantasizing about him!

FreeFall
October 3rd, 2012, 02:16 PM
Am I the only girl that thinks anyone over 3 years older than me is an old man and unattractive in every way? I'm 18, any guys over 21 is just ugly to me. Too old, ick.

crzy15
October 3rd, 2012, 02:18 PM
MEE TOOOOO !! im sooo attracted to older guys! A guy we met at our camp ground is 32 and I think hes awesome ! i studder when he talks to me,, i feel like such a little kid,, hahah

TaylorToo
October 3rd, 2012, 02:25 PM
Some old men who don't take care of themselves are gross, I agree. But the ones who do are soooo hot. I just get to thinkin how much they must know in bed....it makes me wet thinkin about them using all that experience on me. Should I make a move? :what:

Ellie wood crainey
October 3rd, 2012, 02:53 PM
I've been attracted to some older guys but I think the oldest one was 17, but I wouldn't go out with em as it be kinda awkward

hotgirlwtits
October 3rd, 2012, 03:00 PM
I've been attracted to some older guys but I think the oldest one was 17, but I wouldn't go out with em as it be kinda awkward

Same with me

Sxc_Sammie
October 3rd, 2012, 03:10 PM
I find older guys hot and get very turned on, however not sure if I could ever do it.

Taryn98
October 3rd, 2012, 04:56 PM
I think some older guys are hot, but there are plenty that aren't either.

Abnormal
October 3rd, 2012, 05:53 PM
I have been with a man that was 24 when I was 15. But that didn't last too long.

missmk
October 3rd, 2012, 06:00 PM
Love me the old men. never been with one, but the rugged 5 oclock shadow where its an entire face of scruff and not just patchy stubble like guys my age trying to grow a bad hipster beard. Love me a man with a little salt and pepper hair, throw em in a nice suit and my knees give out on me. Guys for the most part in my opinion age like a fine wine.

Sadly I've never been with anyone more then 4 years older. sigh... one day

uga_countrygirl
October 3rd, 2012, 08:23 PM
I am definitely a sucker for older, age is just a number with me. The guy's personality and maturity is what i look at. I am currently "talking" to a guy who is 33, he has got me hooked.

Shortie
October 3rd, 2012, 09:26 PM
Well...lol my sexy friend is 28 =P

kerry1998
October 4th, 2012, 12:37 PM
Gotta say I'm hooked too!!!

TaylorToo
October 4th, 2012, 07:53 PM
Well...lol my sexy friend is 28 =P

I think I need a sexy friend:yeah:

Update: So, I decided to set my brothers boss up a bit to see if he was interested....he totally is! It was so exhilarating . He's 35 but I think I'm hooked, lol

Jennycool
October 6th, 2012, 07:36 PM
That is so cool. I have a "friend." He is 41. I have known him for years. Every time we see each other we have a "tickle/wrestle fight."

One time I was able to get on top of him and dry hump on him. The last time I laid on his chest when he fell back and his hands rubbed my bare belly up to my bra to ticle me.. It was so cool.

I am not sure what I should do next but yeah, I am hooked.

workingatperfect
October 6th, 2012, 07:42 PM
I'm normally attracted to older guys. Oldest would probably be my 10th grade teacher who was 28, 30 now and I still think he's sexy. Oldest I've actually been with would be my last two boyfriends who were both 22.

pinkgurl16
October 8th, 2012, 01:12 AM
I get turned on to some older men.

hello_again
October 14th, 2012, 08:21 AM
I am definitely a sucker for older, age is just a number with me. The guy's personality and maturity is what i look at.

Same here. I'm talking to one thats in his late 30's

zoe18
October 14th, 2012, 08:50 AM
Some older guys are cool and still look hot - think Daniel Craig lol, I've been with a guy who was 28 and it was awesome. That whole experience thing - its true :-)

randomnessqueen
October 14th, 2012, 11:36 AM
not really, not in person atleast. i mean there are some musicians i love and think are just the hottest thing since sex. and they are often much older. but thats about it.
however, i have found myself quite attracted to much older women.

KellyNC
October 14th, 2012, 10:01 PM
I would never actually pursue a relationship with a guy over 18, I just wouldn't see it going well. But I defiantly do find guys up to a certain age (somewhere in the 30s) to be attractive.

TaylorToo
October 15th, 2012, 09:08 AM
I would never actually pursue a relationship with a guy over 18, I just wouldn't see it going well. But I defiantly do find guys up to a certain age (somewhere in the 30s) to be attractive.

I don't really want to persue a relationship with him, but I am considering doing other stuff with him. The experience factor intrigues me!
He's 32 and sexy!

AbbaZabba
October 15th, 2012, 02:04 PM
Never done anything, but yes, I'm attracted to older guys and definitely think about them.

kentucky girl
October 15th, 2012, 02:46 PM
yes, i am attracted to older men but so far haven't acted on it

kerry1998
October 15th, 2012, 07:38 PM
wow I thought I was the only one!!! I have this thing about my dads friend, he's 42!!!

omg, i do tease him!!!

Please do not post consecutively, just edit the original post. -StoppingTime.

Cassygurl13
October 16th, 2012, 04:06 AM
I think older guys can def be hot, dont know if i'd ever act on it tho!!

Shortie
October 17th, 2012, 11:12 AM
wow I thought I was the only one!!! I have this thing about my dads friend, he's 42!!!

42 and you're 14...that's just not right

rachin2u42
October 17th, 2012, 11:15 AM
its hot, but kinda weird and legal ramififcaiton.

Shortie
October 17th, 2012, 11:18 AM
its hot, but kinda weird and legal ramififcaiton.

It's not hot, it's criminal.

rachin2u42
October 17th, 2012, 11:29 AM
It's not hot, it's criminal.

sure if its waaay older, but there are laws (i think its 2 years) that there can be a difference between a minor and an adult

emily-candace
October 17th, 2012, 05:50 PM
OMG you would never get me to do that.

SmexiLexie510
October 18th, 2012, 01:28 PM
one to four years older, i guess, i have a huge thing about older guys but only in that gap (one 2 four yrs oldr)

ItsChelsea
October 20th, 2012, 07:55 PM
I totally think one of my dad's friends is hot. He's never hit on me or anything, but I've definitely had some "fun" while thinking about him more than once. I swear, if he would ever look at me just right, just once, I would totally pounce.

roxybaby
October 20th, 2012, 11:47 PM
I really love this guy who's 40. But I've really liked him since he was 33, and he's a celeberty, so it's not like I have a chance anyway. ;)

shipwreck
October 23rd, 2012, 03:40 PM
Hey I know this is for girls but my Sis is to chicken to ask how do you girls go about finding a man for her she's only 15 but she's really into older guys I guess

madisonsweet
October 25th, 2012, 02:42 PM
i'm SOOO bad about this! i dont want to have a bf who's alot older than me but i cant help being SOOO horny for guys in there 30s. i've hooked up with a few and it was better than anything else i've ever done. period. i cant even think about it or i'll get horny. haha!

i am the worlds worst tease around older guys.... i know its bad but i cant help it.

ItsChelsea
October 25th, 2012, 08:30 PM
i'm SOOO bad about this! i dont want to have a bf who's alot older than me but i cant help being SOOO horny for guys in there 30s. i've hooked up with a few and it was better than anything else i've ever done. period. i cant even think about it or i'll get horny. haha!

i am the worlds worst tease around older guys.... i know its bad but i cant help it.

I heard my uncle telling my dad that some girl that lives next to him thats my age teases him all the time, but I thought he was imagining it, since I know I don't have the nerve to straight up tease older guys like that. I guess some girls do, you go girl! haha. Wait, maybe you're the one who lives next to him? LOL

Not gonna lie, if I had the nerve I would totally flirt with and tease the crap out of this one older guy...

TaylorToo
October 26th, 2012, 08:10 AM
The guy I am talking about is my older brothers boss.... I have been flirting with him a lot, LOL.

If he makes a move I think I'm gonna act on it :yummy:

deadtotheworld
October 27th, 2012, 12:46 AM
I have always been into older guys, they are just more mature.
When i was 14 i dated a 20 year old- that was a mistake but not for age reasons.
And i am currently 17 and have a huge crush on a 29 year old.

ana1og
November 7th, 2012, 08:37 PM
I must confess, as much as I am into girls... older men are a huge turn on for me. Something about the experience, the confidence... *knees weaken*

anyone50
November 12th, 2012, 03:38 PM
I'm 15 and let's just say my bf is what most of you would consider an older man. sex is totally different with men than with boys (18 and under) older guys know stuff and arn't in such a hurry when it comes to sex. he treats me like a lady when we go out and never let me forget i'm a woman when were in bed. never had a teenage bf do that there ussually pawing at you constantly

LitBlackRose
November 12th, 2012, 04:58 PM
I have date a guy he was 19 me 14 we broke but I go like older guys but really not in the range of anyone over 6 years of age for me

Emerald Dream
November 12th, 2012, 06:20 PM
Guys a few years older than me are alright. Old enough to be my father is not. Just plain creepy to me.

xCrystalx
November 13th, 2012, 09:54 AM
I thought I was the only one, seriously, this makes me so relieved.

ayelove100
November 13th, 2012, 10:45 AM
I would like a guy thats a least 3 years older than me. The most id 10 years older than me. lol :)

ItsChelsea
November 13th, 2012, 10:24 PM
I thought I was the only one, seriously, this makes me so relieved.

Haha you're deff not the only one ;)

Zoe16
November 15th, 2012, 09:16 PM
Wow I thought i was maybe alone and wierd for preferring older guys.:whoops:

ashleyrobinson
November 15th, 2012, 11:34 PM
usually when i masturbate i do it to images of older men. idk maybe its just a fetish or something but i really like them in the 60-70 year old age

justagirl2013
November 28th, 2012, 06:55 PM
my brother is very sexy if any of you are interested? hehe!

SammyG17
November 28th, 2012, 10:25 PM
The oldest person that visited our family was 50. He was some co-worker of my dads. For me, it really depends on the guy. Older men just have a particular charm. Some can be really nasty, but the ones we let into our little circle of people we like, are usually very handsome and kind.

Brook
November 29th, 2012, 02:31 AM
I confess.. I like older guys. Im not talking about like a year or 2 I mean much much older. I have to kinda keep in a big secret because ppl are so freakin judgey.. Hey I like what I like

ana1og
December 5th, 2012, 09:54 PM
I confess.. I like older guys. Im not talking about like a year or 2 I mean much much older. I have to kinda keep in a big secret because ppl are so freakin judgey.. Hey I like what I like

I have a feeling you and I are in a similar situation...

susanb13
December 6th, 2012, 03:11 AM
I'm new here and like what :yes:yu say about older men. I'm 13 and like talking to an older guy and thot I was weird but am feeling not so much after reading how many girls like it too.

Kwmpa
December 7th, 2012, 05:38 PM
I have a feeling you and I are in a similar situation...


I'm in the same situation as well

ana1og
December 18th, 2012, 12:06 AM
Looks like at lot of us are in the same boat...

Amy_I_am
December 18th, 2012, 12:22 AM
Im definitely attracted to a lot of older men. I cant imagine any type of relationship except for a sexual one being possible with such a guy though, and thats not what I'm looking for so for now, nobody older for me.

PGHTommy
December 18th, 2012, 09:02 AM
I'm an "older guy" hahaha

TaylorToo
December 18th, 2012, 09:06 AM
Looks like at lot of us are in the same boat...

I'm officially in that boat now too!

ItsChelsea
December 18th, 2012, 06:03 PM
I'm an "older guy" hahaha

Older guys can be hot, but not ones who can't read and come to a section they're not even supposed to be in to pick up girls. That takes away any potential hotness you might have had.

ana1og
December 19th, 2012, 06:41 AM
Older guys can be hot, but not ones who can't read and come to a section they're not even supposed to be in to pick up girls. That takes away any potential hotness you might have had.

Agreed

TaylorToo
December 19th, 2012, 08:14 AM
I'm an "older guy" hahaha

When I mentioned "older" guys, I'm talkin about mature , like older than 25 yr old, guys...Not 17 yr olds, lol

ana1og
December 19th, 2012, 08:26 PM
When I mentioned "older" guys, I'm talkin about mature , like older than 25 yr old, guys...Not 17 yr olds, lol

Also agreed

ali98
December 20th, 2012, 11:00 AM
Hey Yunz (it's a Pittsburgh thing)

I'm wondering if anyone else is attracted to or has been with an older guy? If so, how old? Or how old would you go? I'm really turned on by my older brothers boss and would love to jump his bones if I could! :wub:

I am dating a 35yo guy... I feel very good and mature... We are both veeery satisfied...

britt69
December 23rd, 2012, 06:22 PM
I must confess, as much as I am into girls... older men are a huge turn on for me. Something about the experience, the confidence... *knees weaken*

omg i feel the same way!

abp1999
December 24th, 2012, 03:14 AM
Older guys can be hot so don't worry about it unless they are mad old lol!!

tifferslove13
December 24th, 2012, 10:44 PM
Hrm... i mostly only go for older men, 30+ latley. The last time I spent time with a guy around my age I was so bored and the sex was awful!!

Zoriandra
January 1st, 2013, 09:22 AM
I'm 16. Ive had crushes on 60 year old actors before.

and in real life? people I've met? probably 40's

Sxc_Sammie
January 1st, 2013, 04:29 PM
The oldest I would good would have be no older than 30 but I prefer girls my age!! Guys are to much like hard work!!

kayleethegray
January 3rd, 2013, 05:59 PM
Older guys definitely get me all hot and bothered, but I don't think I'll be indulging more than naughty chats anytime soon.

ccof97
January 3rd, 2013, 06:28 PM
I agree that older men can be very attractive. My mom has a guy friend that comes over to help do the manly chores around our house like cleaning gutters, mowing the grass and whatnot and I find him very attractive. He is 29 and my mom is 43 but they just work together. Every time he comes over he works without a shirt on and he has a great body! He usually wears tight jeans or gym shorts, and I would love to see what is underneath them haha. I try to tease him sometimes but he ignores me. It is quite disappointing.

LolaHaze
January 18th, 2013, 05:45 AM
omg i feel the same way!

So do I! I spend a lot of time around older guys for work, and wile I love the attention, I also love their confidence!

Younger guys are so nervous, even the guys who pretend they aren't (and I see thru that).

Weak in the knees, that rush of wetness, oh, the things I know they can do!

MaryBet
January 18th, 2013, 10:52 PM
I love thinking of older men watching me. I<ve been touched by one and that was great!

MaryBet
January 18th, 2013, 10:53 PM
So do I! I spend a lot of time around older guys for work, and wile I love the attention, I also love their confidence!

Younger guys are so nervous, even the guys who pretend they aren't (and I see thru that).

Weak in the knees, that rush of wetness, oh, the things I know they can do!

I feel the same way!!

LolaHaze
January 22nd, 2013, 06:30 AM
I love thinking of older men watching me. I<ve been touched by one and that was great!

Because they know what they're doing.

kristinesaule
January 22nd, 2013, 10:40 AM
I am 13 YO too and I like talking with olders man too. Sometimes I go to relationship with older man and we wlking and talking. I have 38 yo friend. I like when he very careflly toch me. Once i meet with 46 yo man.

danika13
January 22nd, 2013, 12:04 PM
I let one of my dads friends feel me on my panties it was awesome he knew just where to touch me then he licked his fingers when he was done that was my first time doing anything like that.

anyone50
January 24th, 2013, 02:43 AM
I am 13 YO too and I like talking with olders man too. Sometimes I go to relationship with older man and we wlking and talking. I have 38 yo friend. I like when he very careflly toch me. Once i meet with 46 yo man.

This just seems scary too me a 13 year old meeting a man of 46 arn't you afraid of being raped

LolaHaze
January 24th, 2013, 07:25 AM
This just seems scary too me a 13 year old meeting a man of 46 arn't you afraid of being raped

I was thinking the same thing. Seems really odd.

Eyeless
January 24th, 2013, 01:48 PM
I love older man. Actually, my boyfriend is 20. I'm his first girlfriend and it's so perfect. ^^

Aceso
January 24th, 2013, 09:08 PM
Always liked older guys. Dated a 18y/o for a while when I was 14 and my first crush was 4 years older than me haha.
My best friend is 21, so six years older than me. Though I look 17 and he looks 19 so we don't get stared at much, damnn it's good. Our interests and thought processing are almost identical and although we met by sheer coincidence I'm so glad we did.
He told me I'm the first girl he's ever had proper feelings for and would consider having a relationship with, it's kinda cute that this all happened completely unintentionally and by accident, but it's so awesome keeping things casual. I literally just want to be with him all the time, and likewise he does too. Not even sexually, because it's so fun just chilling out with him, wherever we go it's always entertaining and fun and I've never felt happier. And of course, the benefits of being with a guy who's older...that maturity, the experience - mother of god when the guy knows what he's doing...hngggg....of course the independence...staying around his place soon, can't wait ;)

LolaHaze
January 25th, 2013, 07:03 AM
Always liked older guys. Dated a 18y/o for a while when I was 14 and my first crush was 4 years older than me haha.
My best friend is 21, so six years older than me. Though I look 17 and he looks 19 so we don't get stared at much, damnn it's good. Our interests and thought processing are almost identical and although we met by sheer coincidence I'm so glad we did.
He told me I'm the first girl he's ever had proper feelings for and would consider having a relationship with, it's kinda cute that this all happened completely unintentionally and by accident, but it's so awesome keeping things casual. I literally just want to be with him all the time, and likewise he does too. Not even sexually, because it's so fun just chilling out with him, wherever we go it's always entertaining and fun and I've never felt happier. And of course, the benefits of being with a guy who's older...that maturity, the experience - mother of god when the guy knows what he's doing...hngggg....of course the independence...staying around his place soon, can't wait ;)

You sound like what my Dad calls "an old soul" - that's a good thing, btw. Someone who is wise beyond their years!

:)

Aceso
January 25th, 2013, 11:07 AM
You sound like what my Dad calls "an old soul" - that's a good thing, btw. Someone who is wise beyond their years!

:)

Thanks so much :) It's not something I'd intentionally choose to do - but I'm not going to pass up something good when there's no reason for it. He's sensible, I'm sensible, we're not stupid and what we have going on works for us, so I see no reason to change it. We're content and it's uncomplicated - it makes everything good. :)

LolaHaze
January 25th, 2013, 03:24 PM
Thanks so much :) It's not something I'd intentionally choose to do - but I'm not going to pass up something good when there's no reason for it. He's sensible, I'm sensible, we're not stupid and what we have going on works for us, so I see no reason to change it. We're content and it's uncomplicated - it makes everything good. :)

You definitely SOUND sensible!

Amber Bi
January 25th, 2013, 07:26 PM
older guys really know what they are doing. guys my age just want to get themselves off.
older guys care more about my pleasure before they "finish"
and they are sooo confident ...such a turn on

katebelanger
January 25th, 2013, 08:48 PM
yea, some of them were in my mom's and dad's friends. i would go around early and middle 20's. lol. thats funny. and there were some cute guys that sometimes i have took away. :)

Aceso
January 26th, 2013, 08:23 AM
older guys really know what they are doing. guys my age just want to get themselves off.
older guys care more about my pleasure before they "finish"
and they are sooo confident ...such a turn on

Exactly this!

anyone50
January 26th, 2013, 10:49 AM
I agree older guys do know more thats why i'm dating an older guy he's 25 and the term older guy is a relative one. If a girl is 12 or 13 than an older guy could be 18 and if she's 30 an older guy would be more like 50 + but for a teen to want to date and have sex with a guy thats 40 or 50 like a few have posted here is just a little creepy and scary to me

Lil Red
January 30th, 2013, 08:40 PM
I've always been attracted to older guys... I'm almost 18 and my bf of 2 years just turned 21

CharlieHorse
January 30th, 2013, 08:41 PM
guys my age just want to get themselves off.

Maybe you haven't met the right guy your age yet?

Veta
February 1st, 2013, 11:46 PM
I dont consider a 5 year difference that much enough to call them "older men" My mum is 40 and my dad is 60 and even though I like older guys ( because heck I might aswell have it in me), I see what would my life be like if I marry a guy much older than me, I wouldn't want to have that big of a difference.

mats
February 7th, 2013, 11:16 AM
I really don't like older guys (>25)... I prefer guys around my age *hmm*

honeybear
February 7th, 2013, 02:12 PM
my last three boyfriends have been much older than me....I'm almost 17 and my current bf is 26...my mom is ok with it and he's awesome so *shrug*

Angelgirl
February 8th, 2013, 02:36 PM
I just turned 14 Jan. 1,2013 and my b/f is 19 have been going with him for 6 months now.

nancy_moon
February 10th, 2013, 12:46 PM
Actually I prefer "younger" boys...like one year younger


But I have to say that older boys are interesting too :)

amandamanda
February 21st, 2013, 08:53 AM
I just turned 14 Jan. 1,2013 and my b/f is 19 have been going with him for 6 months now.

Yah i was in a similar thing when i was 13/14 and it turned out to be not so great. Just be careful!

I think most girls get crushes on older (even way older) guys but its not good for us OR them to do anything about it. they could go to jail for one thing!!

FunAmyBi
June 16th, 2013, 12:33 PM
I'm only into older guys. Guys my age suck!! They are dumb and boring. I want a guy that is hot, knows how to treat a girl, has money, has a car, and a job. I'm totally crushing on a few of my dad's friends, but they are all married and do not even notice me.

indoxyl
June 16th, 2013, 12:49 PM
i think the oldest ive dated was 24 when i was 16. dated for close to a year. it was pretty great

Theekshana
September 29th, 2013, 08:25 AM
wow.. i'm glad that i'm not the only one in here. always thought it was a bad thing and had to be kept a secret. :)

Harley Quinn
September 29th, 2013, 09:05 AM
Don't bump old threads. :locked: