i cant escape my past

[that-god-chick]

no matter how hard i try i cant forget my past, its eating me alive.. i cant talk to anyone about what happened because if i do it wont go away, it doesnt go away anyway, all the memorys of everything constaly float around my head i cant fucking get rid of them :( i just dont know what to do its like everytime i think there finaly gone something happens and they come back again :(

[xXJust Jump ItXx]

Crap... Im in the same boat as you. :( I really am wondering too...

[wild1]

You're gonna have to try to keep the past in the past even if its hard to do. YOU and only you are responsible for making yourself happy. You can do it!!!

[Breakeven]

what happens to you in the past doesn't not define you or your life or your future!

the way you choose to react to the past either it gonna make you stronger or it will break you
you need to accept the past in order to move on with your life and start living!,and you are not alone, vt is here to help you and listen

-talking to someone helps a lot , consider that!!
-don't think about the past
- keep yourself busy with hobby
-accept the fact that you cant change it
-let it make you stronger

[that-god-chick]

what happens to you in the past doesn't not define you or your life or your future!

this is not the case for self harm as this will get in the way of many jobs that i may apply for even if i dont do it anymore it will still get in the way, so that is one clear example of something i cant put in my past... but thats not what im talking about.. its hard to let my past be my past when i cant help but think about it every day, these couple of events are what have made me so fucked up... its hard to forget something that changed ur life so dramticly

[Haunted]

You will never forget. Our past is what makes us who we are. We cannot escape it because we cannot escape ourselves, or rather, our personalities--the essence of our being. You can either let it torment you or learn and grow from it. Maybe the only thing you can do is remember and help others to not experience that. It will make you stronger, your past will.

[ArsenicCatNip]

this is not the case for self harm as this will get in the way of many jobs that i may apply for even if i dont do it anymore it will still get in the way, so that is one clear example of something i cant put in my past... but thats not what im talking about.. its hard to let my past be my past when i cant help but think about it every day, these couple of events are what have made me so fucked up... its hard to forget something that changed ur life so dramticly

How will your self harm get in the way? It shouldn't
Secondly, we can't change the past. That's just how it will be. The best thing we can do is turn a closed door into an open window and use it as a learning experience. :]

[that-god-chick]

becasue most people will look at the scars and judge you, iv been knocked down from so many jobs because of it... and like the army and police force, you cant join them if u have a history of self harm...