Sexual Dreams Of Relatives?

[Snowcakie]

Okay, um...

I've been having dreams recently of sexual encounters with my female cousin who is about two years older than me- and well... I'm disturbed a little about this issue. Not to be into too much detail but I asked her (embarrassingly) one day does she masturbates... and she (predictably) said no, however, she did mention she tried to once.

Ever since then I've been dealing with these.. dreams, fantasies maybe? I don't know, maybe I just wanted someone in RL to understand me and maybe do these things I do.

It's not like I'm going to asked anyone in RL- it's too embarrassing but I had the guts to ask my cousin, not too sure if it was a good idea :(.

Um, do anyone goes through this? It's been difficult and I've been aroused just thinking about her and the possibility of her masturbating :(( I probably would just like to... understand.

It's been going on about a month now and I fear if I see her again and we're alone..... I might do something irrational.

[FreeFall]

If you fear you're going to, in a way, sexually assault her, practice intense self control.
If for a second you think you can't do that, don't be near her alone.

You're 13. I think you're just overwhelmed by your hormones and changes going on in your body and in the jumbles of all of this, your mind's hooked onto a sexual act that you're aware of. I don't think it means anything serious, I think if you learned of someone else doing something sexual you'd focus on that. I don't know if it's a bad habit or not, as long as you don't act on it or disclose it to anyone you don't trust, it's ok. Just remember she's your cousin, try not to sexualize and objectify your family.

[Taryn98]

I've never had sexual thoughts about any of my relatives. Sounds crazy to me. Just talking about sex with relatives is totally different. There's nothing wrong with that as long as you don't act on anything.

[Lorraine]

I've had a few sexual dreams of one of my second cousins, but I guess that's far enoug out on the family tree, so I don't think much about it. :)

[Ellie wood crainey]

I only have had that sort of thng happen to me once with my extremely hot second cousin but I kinda walked in on him masterbating in my room whilst we were watching a film, so I ended up sitting next to him and then we ended up doing oral to each other. Wasn't bad though!

[hotgirlwtits]

i have done oral with my cousin in law this is his photo Image Removed. -StoppingTime

[Abnormal]

Oh yeah, I have. It bugged me right the fuck out, too. But, it happened. I have to say though, never again. I hope that never happens again.

[pinkgurl16]

I had a dream once but never acted on it.

[Akasuki]

I've had nothing pleasant when it comes to dreams like that. I dream that I'm being raped a lot. I haven't had a sexually positive dream in a long time.

I think it's normal. You can't help what you dream about, but don't act upon it.

[heyimeve]

I have before, it was realllll weird....but based on the replies I'd say its pretty common and I would'nt worry about it :)

[Feel Good Drag]

It's not uncommon. I've had them about my brother, and every time i saw him i couldnt stop thinking about it. it'll fade, don't worry.

[randomnessqueen]

ive had sexual dreams about relatives before. it doesnt really mean anything. im not attracted to the sexually, its just something that happens. it wont affect you anymore than any other dream does

[Tessa-stra]

Yeah, I've had those dreams to about my female cousin after me talked about m'bating once. Didnt bother me.