Dawn01
October 2nd, 2012, 05:55 PM
This guy is the same of all my recent topics here... Really, I can't explain what I feel for him, I never felt this way for anyone before and I'm like... Going crazy! I feel like I need to do something, to say something, but I don't know what to do! It seems his situation is more serious than I thought it was, and I'm actually not caring very much if I will date him or not, I'm more worried about him! (and I'm making another topic just because I don't want to make double posts, you know, in many foruns double post is flood, so I guess here is flood too)
I told you that I kissed him last saturday and then he send me a text saying that he couldn't correspond my love because he like other person. I asked him if I made him cheat on someone and he said no, he is not with anyone, but he wasn't being honest to his feelings by kissing me. That sounded really weird since he always treated me really well (we are close friends) and I always had a kind of crush on him, and I always showed that I like him more than a friend in such a way that his other friends noticed and were making jokes, they even said he was gay for not giving me a chance.
I started thinking and it came to me that he could still be in love with his ex gf... She may be "the other person" he was talking about! I sent a text trying to make him confess that was her and asking if I could help him, I said it in a very indirect way, but it only made things worse, he told me to stop talking about it! I sent a lot of texts saying "sorry" but now he doesn't want to answer any of my texts :/
I'm worried because if it's really his ex, he must have a REALLY SERIOUS EMOTIONAL PROBLEM! Really, they broke up more than one year ago and the girl has another boyfriend now, and plus, it's said that he was the one that ended the relationship, but he regretted, and when he regretted, it was already too late. Ok, they were together for more than an year, but really... THIS IS JUST SO SICK!! Is it even possible? I mean, he just can't still be in love with her, it's too sad to be true :( Why he can't move on?
I'm also thinking about the possibility of him questioning his sexuality... Really, many people have told me that he was gay and I don't think that would be impossible! Most of his friends are girls, he is somehow different from the boys I'm used to and he seems to be not interested in kissing a lot of girls at the parties. Plus, when I had my tumblr, I once received a anonimous menssage (!!!!) saying that if he didn't like me back, he was surely a gay. MAN, WHAT THE FUCK?! These texts of him seemed really gay, because really, since we are good friends and I'm definetely not a bitch, not a bad person and not ugly, why he can't give me a chance?
What can I do to help him? What should I say to him? What is in fact his problem? How can I save at least our friendship after all thouse events? :confused:
PS: I'm going to see him next saturday because of our course
I told you that I kissed him last saturday and then he send me a text saying that he couldn't correspond my love because he like other person. I asked him if I made him cheat on someone and he said no, he is not with anyone, but he wasn't being honest to his feelings by kissing me. That sounded really weird since he always treated me really well (we are close friends) and I always had a kind of crush on him, and I always showed that I like him more than a friend in such a way that his other friends noticed and were making jokes, they even said he was gay for not giving me a chance.
I started thinking and it came to me that he could still be in love with his ex gf... She may be "the other person" he was talking about! I sent a text trying to make him confess that was her and asking if I could help him, I said it in a very indirect way, but it only made things worse, he told me to stop talking about it! I sent a lot of texts saying "sorry" but now he doesn't want to answer any of my texts :/
I'm worried because if it's really his ex, he must have a REALLY SERIOUS EMOTIONAL PROBLEM! Really, they broke up more than one year ago and the girl has another boyfriend now, and plus, it's said that he was the one that ended the relationship, but he regretted, and when he regretted, it was already too late. Ok, they were together for more than an year, but really... THIS IS JUST SO SICK!! Is it even possible? I mean, he just can't still be in love with her, it's too sad to be true :( Why he can't move on?
I'm also thinking about the possibility of him questioning his sexuality... Really, many people have told me that he was gay and I don't think that would be impossible! Most of his friends are girls, he is somehow different from the boys I'm used to and he seems to be not interested in kissing a lot of girls at the parties. Plus, when I had my tumblr, I once received a anonimous menssage (!!!!) saying that if he didn't like me back, he was surely a gay. MAN, WHAT THE FUCK?! These texts of him seemed really gay, because really, since we are good friends and I'm definetely not a bitch, not a bad person and not ugly, why he can't give me a chance?
What can I do to help him? What should I say to him? What is in fact his problem? How can I save at least our friendship after all thouse events? :confused:
PS: I'm going to see him next saturday because of our course