Should I.... Or shouldn't I? :/

[Mason97]

Hi, I'm new to this so bear with me

I had like a tiny crush on this girl for like a month, then I had a normal sized crush for the next month, and ever since then I've had a massive crush on her, I think I love her we get on so well we laugh with one another and I'd love to ask her out but I'm so so so afraid of rejection terrified.

Advice? Thanks!

[Drewtsit]

don't think too much on it. and until you know whether or not she likes you, its better to keep it to yourself

[Agteen]

Well if you feel comfortable with her then yeah ask her out!

[Mason97]

don't think too much on it. and until you know whether or not she likes you, its better to keep it to yourself


Yeah I agree but I'm getting really depressed about it :(

Well if you feel comfortable with her then yeah ask her out!

I feel comfortable with her but I'm so scared of being rejected and ruining our friendship

I merged your posts; use the "edit button" instead of consecutively posting next time, thanks. -StoppingTime

[Agteen]

That's true. In that case I'd either wait, or not go out. My past experience - if you go out with a girl you used to be friends with, once you break up,my our pretty much strangers to each other and you basically lose a friend.

[StoppingTime]

:arrow: Relationships and Dating.

When you say love, do you really mean "love?" Usually at this age, I think most people have the love of the idea of love, if that makes sense.

But sure, take a shot. Just go up to her and start talking, and see if you can get things to go from there. If she rejects you, isn't it better than not taking a chance at all, and never knowing?

[Mason97]

:arrow: Relationships and Dating.

When you say love, do you really mean "love?" Usually at this age, I think most people have the love of the idea of love, if that makes sense.

But sure, take a shot. Just go up to her and start talking, and see if you can get things to go from there. If she rejects you, isn't it better than not taking a chance at all, and never knowing?

I know exactly what you mean! But I have loved her for months and months and I don't even think about sex, just her face

[Dawn01]

You should try... Maybe she likes you back! Tell her that you like her a lot as a friend, so much that you'd like to have something more if possible. And ask her out! If she says no, don't worry, sometimes it happens, but at least you took a chance! Imagine you never take this chance, and she finds another boy and starts dating him, you would regret not asking her out when you had the chance :)

[Drewtsit]

i mean, if you think about it. going ahead and talking and asking her might be a risk and if you're hurt its a lot more hurt through rejection than it could be if you just hold urges in.

[VerilyKnown]

Like looking in a mirror...

Keep an eye out for any hints she may be giving. Anything from does she seem to make an effort to spend time with you, sit near you, etc. to light touches or gentle smiles.

If you think she likes you too, ask her out!

[Taryn98]

You have to take risks in life. If you don't ask her, you'll never know. And if you wait too long, she might find someone else. Just ask her and see what happens.