Some Questions about being Bi

[MartyG]

Hi....

I'm gay and girls have never been a source of arousal for me. Never. Those of you who are bi....can I ask you a couple of questions?

(1) Do you feel a stronger attraction/arousal for Male vs. Female? Is it a 50/50 thing?
(2) Does the attraction/arousal level for both sexes vary depending on who you are dating? Like; if you are a guy with a b/f....does the attraction/arousal for girls lessen?
(3) What do you feel determines which sex will ultimately win out in the long run?
(4) Do you routinely masturbate to images/thoughts of both sexes; or is it only one most of the time?
(5) Since you could "go either way"...do you feel that you should try and direct things toward one sex or the other?

Thanks! Marty

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

(1) Do you feel a stronger attraction/arousal for Male vs. Female? Is it a 50/50 thing?
For some people it is even, for most they lean towards one or the other. Personally I don't have a particular preference, it changes sometimes, I suppose.

(2) Does the attraction/arousal level for both sexes vary depending on who you are dating? Like; if you are a guy with a b/f....does the attraction/arousal for girls lessen?
It's not that simple. I mean, I don't fantasize about women while I'm kissing a guy, nor do I feel less attracted to women if I'm dating someone who's of the same sex... but at the same time I'm likely thinking more about the physical body of my male partner and less of a women if I am with a guy at that time.

(3) What do you feel determines which sex will ultimately win out in the long run?
Luck of the draw? I have no idea. I don't really care about gender or sex so it just depends on chance as much as anything else.

(4) Do you routinely masturbate to images/thoughts of both sexes; or is it only one most of the time?
Generally I don't like to answer junk about masturbation.

(5) Since you could "go either way"...do you feel that you should try and direct things toward one sex or the other?
Not at all. I'm still going to be a bi as ever even if I try and blend in with the straights or gays or whatever. I don't really feel pressured to conform to anyone's standards other than my own.

[Snookers]

(1) Do you feel a stronger attraction/arousal for Male vs. Female? Is it a 50/50 thing?

When it comes to arousal feelings I tent to go for the opposite sex (there are exceptions, but not often), but when I'm with a girl I tent to get more romantic state and think less about sex and stuff like that.

(2) Does the attraction/arousal level for both sexes vary depending on who you are dating? Like; if you are a guy with a b/f....does the attraction/arousal for girls lessen?

From time to time.

(3) What do you feel determines which sex will ultimately win out in the long run?

...somehow. It's not simple for me, I have periods when I don't really give a fuck about boys and I'm alot into girls, and vice versa.

(4) Do you routinely masturbate to images/thoughts of both sexes; or is it only one most of the time?

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(5) Since you could "go either way"...do you feel that you should try and direct things toward one sex or the other?

No.

[danny7]

(1) Do you feel a stronger attraction/arousal for Male vs. Female? Is it a 50/50 thing? To Males
(2) Does the attraction/arousal level for both sexes vary depending on who you are dating? Like; if you are a guy with a b/f....does the attraction/arousal for girls lessen? I think it does..
(3) What do you feel determines which sex will ultimately win out in the long run? Well, I find myself more into guys than girls
(4) Do you routinely masturbate to images/thoughts of both sexes; or is it only one most of the time? Mostly to guys
(5) Since you could "go either way"...do you feel that you should try and direct things toward one sex or the other? I'm bi.. but i really am a lot more for the guys than girls

[TurboDieselBandit]

(1) Do you feel a stronger attraction/arousal for Male vs. Female? Is it a 50/50 thing?
I'm split 50/50

(2) Does the attraction/arousal level for both sexes vary depending on who you are dating? Like; if you are a guy with a b/f....does the attraction/arousal for girls lessen?
I'm single so I don't know

(3) What do you feel determines which sex will ultimately win out in the long run?
The one I feel most comfortable marrying and having a family with. Sorry, I couldn't live being myself married to a guy. Maybe a bf for now though.

(4) Do you routinely masturbate to images/thoughts of both sexes; or is it only one most of the time?
Usually I think of guys

(5) Since you could "go either way"...do you feel that you should try and direct things toward one sex or the other?
Eventually I will but for now only minimally