Eric57
October 2nd, 2012, 12:25 AM
To make a long story short, I met this guy and we went on about 3 dates. After those 3 dates, he pretty much said that he doesn't think it will work out between us. Partly because of the age (I am 19 and he is 26) and partly because he thinks we don't really hit it off very well. It sucks and I just don't know how to get over it...
I am 19 and I have never been in a relationship. Hell, I've never even kissed anybody. Being gay, it's hard to find guys, especially guys my type. I've never been into feminine guys and it's hard to find gay guys around where I live that aren't like that. Anyways, before him, I had tried talking to other guys and nothing ever worked out. None of the guys I even went on a first date. I talked to maybe 10, maybe 15, different guys before I met this guy. Before I met him, I had basically kind of given up and decided to just to stop looking for awhile. Then when I met him, I had actually found someone I genuinely liked and that I was instantly comfortable with. But now I'm finding it so hard to get over him.
The thing is, we went out on 3 dates and I feel so strongly about this guy. I know I'm not in love, as it's way too early for that. I just feel a strong connection, even though he clearly doesn't. I just don't know how to get over it. It's about a month and half since we last talked. I have tried talking to other guys, but it never works out. Mostly because I kind of just want that one guy.
I know I need to get over it. He doesn't want me and I have to deal with that. I just don't know how to get over it. I know myself and I know that I won't stop thinking about it and I won't get over it until I meet someone new. But I just don't have any interest in even looking anymore. I have struck out so many times that it's getting too frustrating. I'm trying not to push this because things happen when they happen, but it's so frustrating being 19 (almost 20) and not ever being in a relationship or even having my first kiss. But that's a whole different story.
I just am trying to get over him and I don't know how. Any suggestions?
I am 19 and I have never been in a relationship. Hell, I've never even kissed anybody. Being gay, it's hard to find guys, especially guys my type. I've never been into feminine guys and it's hard to find gay guys around where I live that aren't like that. Anyways, before him, I had tried talking to other guys and nothing ever worked out. None of the guys I even went on a first date. I talked to maybe 10, maybe 15, different guys before I met this guy. Before I met him, I had basically kind of given up and decided to just to stop looking for awhile. Then when I met him, I had actually found someone I genuinely liked and that I was instantly comfortable with. But now I'm finding it so hard to get over him.
The thing is, we went out on 3 dates and I feel so strongly about this guy. I know I'm not in love, as it's way too early for that. I just feel a strong connection, even though he clearly doesn't. I just don't know how to get over it. It's about a month and half since we last talked. I have tried talking to other guys, but it never works out. Mostly because I kind of just want that one guy.
I know I need to get over it. He doesn't want me and I have to deal with that. I just don't know how to get over it. I know myself and I know that I won't stop thinking about it and I won't get over it until I meet someone new. But I just don't have any interest in even looking anymore. I have struck out so many times that it's getting too frustrating. I'm trying not to push this because things happen when they happen, but it's so frustrating being 19 (almost 20) and not ever being in a relationship or even having my first kiss. But that's a whole different story.
I just am trying to get over him and I don't know how. Any suggestions?