View Full Version : She is my best friend
Edawg
October 1st, 2012, 08:03 PM
So I have this crush on my best friend. We tell each other everything, she tells me all her guy problems, how she feels, what matters to her and I tell her everything. Well for a long time I have had a crush on her. She is also the daughter of my teacher. I told her that I liked her, and I think it may have strained our friendship. We don't seem to be as close as we used to. What should I do?
FreeFall
October 1st, 2012, 10:28 PM
If you feel she's grown distant, be her friend again. Don't let yourself be the friend that has a crush on her, be the friend that she told everything to again (:
I'm not saying to deny your feelings, maybe you'll luck out and she returns them. But from what you've said, it seems she values your friendship more than a romantic one. She ould be distant to see how she feels, she may not want to hurt you.
Also, you could be reading into it too much. You could've stressed yourself out from telling her your feelings that you're looking at every little thing you may normally not have, and the stress is making you feel like things are distant. So the best thing I can say to you right now is to just relax, breathe and be her freind (:
adc1031
October 2nd, 2012, 12:22 AM
In remember I told that too my close friend she used to like me and i didnt like her and a few months i fell in love with her but she didnt feel that same i would get really jealous if she talked to another guy cuz she was a big flirt with everyone. Moral to the sorry our friendship was ruined It just hurt to see her with anyone else so I just stopped talking to her and now we go to different schools now so we dont talk at all. Haha sorry for blabbing but it did make me feel better not talking to her now i dont like her at all and it helps her boyfriend is fugly lol.
vBulletin® v3.8.9, Copyright ©2000-2021, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.