Urges

[Ninjanoodle14]

I was hanging with my friend and I was a little sweatyso I took off my clothes and sat down. We are really close and I thought he wouldn't care but he told me to put my clothes on and later he told my mom about it. It Is so awkward. How should I approach him about it?

[Fable]

Just tell him your sorry
Tell him you thought you and him were close enough to do that.
Most friends so more than just being in there boxers togethers.
Just tell him sorry.

[Malzahar]

yea i agree with matt just tell him sry bro but i was sweaty

[TigerBoy]

I was brought up as a nudist so I've done a few things like that myself that have surprised people. Seems a over reaction from our friend though - to go tell your mum on you is just unbelievably immature imho.

I'm really on the fence about this to be honest.

I don't feel like you should have to apologise, because with my friends its always been "your room, your rules". You being naked doesn't cause any harm to him, if he didn't like it he could either not look or just politely ask you to cover up. Besides, its really unlikely he's going to get through his life without being in a changing room or something and seeing other guys naked ever, so he needs to deal.

On the other hand, starting out with an apology might be a good way of bringing the subject up, and then you might be able to explain that you hadn't intended to upset him, and you were in turn upset by his reaction.

Either way in my view he needs an attitude adjustment.

[niceguy887]

I was brought up as a nudist so I've done a few things like that myself that have surprised people. Seems a over reaction from our friend though - to go tell your mum on you is just unbelievably immature imho.

I'm really on the fence about this to be honest.

I don't feel like you should have to apologise, because with my friends its always been "your room, your rules". You being naked doesn't cause any harm to him, if he didn't like it he could either not look or just politely ask you to cover up. Besides, its really unlikely he's going to get through his life without being in a changing room or something and seeing other guys naked ever, so he needs to deal.

On the other hand, starting out with an apology might be a good way of bringing the subject up, and then you might be able to explain that you hadn't intended to upset him, and you were in turn upset by his reaction.

Either way in my view he needs an attitude adjustment.

Excellent point! You should be allowed to undress in your own room.

[Giles]

If I was in your position then I'd not talk about it. Seemingly he can't handle the situation so there's little point in bringing it up again.

[Straight]

He needs to grow up a bit, It's not like you were "doing" anything to him... I'm not sure if you were naked or not, But it's defiantly fine. If he is a good friend, You might want to say sorry and say you didn't mean anything by it. But if it were me, I wouldn't say anything about it.

[Sleepwalking]

If you were fully naked, then there's something wrong with that.
Whether it was in your room or not, that doesn't matter. You made your friend feel uncomfortable, and that's why he went and told your mom. Next time, ask the person first.

[Bumpin Bass]

Ummm... You could ask him why he made such a big deal about it... Why would he feel the need to tell your mom? Unless you took off ALL your clothes... In that case, you should ask first. But it's immature of him to tell your mom. That's something I'd expect from a 5 y.o.

[uberwhal3]

Yikes thats awk.
Fight em!! ;)

[Edawg]

I bet that is pretty awkward! Sorry man

[Michael Anthony]

i'm glad i dont have friends like that. we're naked around each other all the time.
and i would be really pissed if a friend of mine told my mom. he needs to seriously grow up.

[West Coast Sheriff]

I wouldn't bring it up. But if he does just apologize:D

[Sean4U]

you mean that you only took off your shirt?...that seems like an over reaction on his part....not sure if you said it was your room or not, but either way that was pretty weird.....not like he doesn't know what a guys chest looks like....

[Danny_boi 16]

just tell him sry bro but i was sweaty

and try to get over it, do sweat the small stuff

[DerBear]

This really is more of a family and friends issue.

Puberty for Boys :arrow2: Family and Friends

[Haunted]

Obviously if you felt close enough to undress in front of him then he must be a great friend. All I have to say is do nothing to ruin your friendship.

[nice]

Well if you were in your room as long as you weren't fully nude I don't see the point of him getting mad because its your room so if you get hot an sweaty you should be able to take your clothes of since you weren't naked and didn't do anything to cause harm to him. If you guys are truly close and he had a problem with it he could have asked you to put your clothes back on or something like along those lines. And telling your mom about it............. smh that was just childish you are both at an age where you can resolve any problems you have and not have to run to an adult every time you guys disagree or get into an argument about it. Next time you see him just ask why he told your mom and instead of talking to you about it.

[Matt_2012]

haha you didn't do shit! just tell him that your sorry you just thought it wouldn't have mattered. and was shocked by your response.

[Ninjanoodle14]

I was brought up as a nudist so I've done a few things like that myself that have surprised people. Seems a over reaction from our friend though - to go tell your mum on you is just unbelievably immature imho.

I'm really on the fence about this to be honest.

I don't feel like you should have to apologise, because with my friends its always been "your room, your rules". You being naked doesn't cause any harm to him, if he didn't like it he could either not look or just politely ask you to cover up. Besides, its really unlikely he's going to get through his life without being in a changing room or something and seeing other guys naked ever, so he needs to deal.

On the other hand, starting out with an apology might be a good way of bringing the subject up, and then you might be able to explain that you hadn't intended to upset him, and you were in turn upset by his reaction.

Either way in my view he needs an attitude adjustment.


Thanks tigerboy! That really helps!:)