I am lonely and my personality isnt able to fix it...

[Electrovx]

I am new to this site and joined last night...I am 16 and havnt been able to peek any girls interests whatso ever...and it never really bothered me because i am young and am very
patiant. However, recently i have felt very lonely, for as i got older i began seeing more and more people in relationships which made the feeling more prominate as time grew on
Now i am not anti social but actually very social. Unfortunatly i seem to be too smart for any girls i know which seems like it would be more attractive that i am smart for say. Lastly i.just wanted to ask how i might be able to apeal to girls in
Oh and a good tid bit of info...i am kinda the GUY who is the sarcastic ninja with the responsibility of being a top notch wacko who.humiliates himself due to the desire to see people smille and laugh...etc
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[Sir Suomi]

Well, I guess all I can say is I'm similar, except for the age part (I'm 14). This happens to me too. I've only been in 2 relationships, counting the one I'm in now. I found out that I have to find girls in a certain social group, the not totally goregeous and popular, but the more humble and nice girls, that are deceant looking. Maybe your'e looking at the wrong girls to impress. Try talking to other girls, maybe even lower your standards. Hope this helped! :)

[conniption]

I'm a fifteen year old girl that's never had a boyfriend and has never been kissed, you're not alone. I talk to boys, but I just haven't found anybody that I'd really like to date. The best advice I'd be able to give you is to just keep looking.

[adc1031]

I know how u feel, I feel lonely haha all my friends are going to homecoming with their dates and Ive got no one a lot of girls asked me me but their not my type it sucks.

[Texas warrior]

i am kinda the GUY who is the sarcastic ninja with the responsibility of being a top notch wacko who.humiliates himself due to the desire to see people smille and laugh...etc
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My advice is to look for girls with a high tolerance for sarcasm, or a girl that is also a "sarcastic ninja wacko".


P.S. I am the same kind'a person, most girls seem to ether really like us or hate us.

[Electrovx]

:D thanks for the support and it good to know that there are people who feel the same way so THANKS :lol:

[Sadworld]

The two best advices I've ever learn in my life when it comes, well, life and attraction

First impression counts

Silence gets you noticed (silence as in not chatty, not grim either. Basically just say less.)

Seems anti-social at first and counter productive but if you get the hang of it, trust me, you get people interested. You just have to be around people, all the time, and follow the the two simple advice.