need some girl advice please answer

[saul1026]

so i really like this girl but shes dating my friend and we flirt and i buy her stuff like small things like a soda a small cake etc. anyway what should i do should i tell her i love her or do i wait for her to be single then make a move and one night we were travelling in a van me her her boyfriend and her sister and another friend we were all laying down and the order was like this me her her bf my friend and her sis my friend and her sis were asleep so it was just me and her bf so then she asked us if we wanted to fondle her boobs so we each were playing with her tits and we finished and went to sleep and the next day i asked her why she did that and she she didn't want to talk about it so what does that mean does she like me or not and is she leading me on or is she using me
sorry for making it so long but i just dont know what to do anymore its just killing me to know what she thinks it just hurts me to not be with her
thank you for your advice

[FreeFall]

You're such a nice friend to be flirting with your friend's girlfriend. She's also a very wonderful girl to be so "close" with her boyfriend's friends.

It doesn't matter at this point. I can't see how anything will change for the worse if you tell her you love her, are you even sure you love her? But tell her now, tell her when she's single, whenever you want. As you both are right now there's no issue with the time. Her boyfriend doesn't seem to care she asked you to touch her breasts. So really he chopped off his only leg to stand on, oh well. You also don't seem to care about the friendship you have with him since you're all up on his girlfriend. So nothing to lose there.

But put yourself in his shoes. If she's flirty with you and lets you touch her sexually, and you're her boyfriend's friend, she can and will do the same to you. Are you fine knowing she'll let other boys take her out on dates? Are you fine knowing she'll let other boys fondle her, maybe more? Are you sure you'll have no issue that she flirt with other guys? Will you be able to trust her, feel secure and be happy? If you aren't ok with any of that, let it go. I'll play devils advocate though and say she may be regretting everything you two have done. She may have realized last night how far she's gone and how crappy a girlfriend she is. She may either want to push you out of her head and focus on her relationship and stop fooling around with other guy's heart. Or she may be judging who she likes more.

In a nutshell, do what you want. I see no awful outcome of it.