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ShaneSawyer
September 30th, 2012, 02:02 AM
Hey, I'm back!and i feel much better. kinda. well, i should. But lately, girls have been driving me crazy. i am a nice guy. i am not ugly. i am not fat. i'm really average. but NO girls seem to notice me or want to hang out with me. i put myself out there, but no. All i want is a nice relationship with a girl. i don't care about sex, or whether or not she smokes. i just want someone to be with. somebody to love. but it seems as if i have lost "it" since the incident this summer (basically, i really liked a girl and she flat out dumped me) for instance, when i text girls, i find myself generally less interesting and more awkward than how i was before. and even when i interact, i just don't know what to say. anyway, any tips guys?
West Coast Sheriff
September 30th, 2012, 02:06 AM
Just go in there with your head held high. Girls like a confident, not cocky, guy. Yo may have lost some self esteem and you need to get it back! :D
jegoss02
September 30th, 2012, 02:12 AM
Dood. You should go out and just screw the first chick you see. Lol. I don't know why but my first response to that would be hardcore old school Nintendo games. You beat one or two of this would boost confidence dramatically. Lol. Bring your A-game to the girls and they'll fall at your feet. Best of luck. :)
Jackerlus
September 30th, 2012, 03:05 AM
If it's a confidence problem you've got then maybe you should do more things in groups with your friends, like going to town or skype calls, etc. That way you won't have to face the awkwardness of being alone and not having much to say. Some texting always helps though. In your conversations try to think of a current event or common interest to talk about. A nice example would be the weather that day. It's something you can easily talk about because you both know about it.
Hope I helped :)
Iron Man
September 30th, 2012, 03:11 AM
Number one thing to do: Be yourself. If you pretend to be something you're not, a girl is going to come along, and fall for the false side that you created. If the girls around you don't like you for you, oh well. Why would you want someone that doesn't want you back? Give it some time, socialize, and the right girl will come along when you least expect it.
DerBear
September 30th, 2012, 05:19 AM
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