Qustion aboud Dateing

[irhmrh]

Ok i was not sure where to put this so it goes here since i am a boy and and im going threw puberty.

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ok i have never asked a girl out and have never gone out or kissed one eather. i was wondering 1 how to ask a girl out ( i am very shy and cant talk to "normal" people in a convo so asking a girl out just is crazy)
2.once going out how do u bring on the kiss


the only reason i never asked a girl out is because i dont like the way i look in more ways than one...

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Well, I would just ask. you wanna go out to a movie this saturday? That type of thing. And i wouldnt think about the kiss. You will know when its supposed to happen.

[Maverick]

Moving to Relationships and dating

[irhmrh]

Moving to Relationships and dating

thanks i was not sure where to go:P

im still freaking out about it b.c we are going out with some firends tonight and i wanted to ask her thern how would u do it

[Silverfist64]

no double posting.

As for the kiss just like Yuri said youll know when the time comes. Everything will fall in place and will just happen.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

You know, this may sound old fashioned, but hear me out: ask her. Yep, that's right. At the end of the date, if she's been responding well to any contact (i.e. holding hands, or she was "touchy-feely") just flat out ask her if you could kiss her. It's actually gonna impress her that you're "gentlemanly" enough to be that polite. And THEN the answer is almost always a yes :D.

[Frosty]

but when you ask her, be like "would you mind if i gave you a little kiss?"...true story i pulled that, and lost my virginity that night woot!

[Trickster]

ok... he trying to get a date not get laid. Yeah at the end of a date just before she leaves ask "Do you mind if i kissed you?" and if she is the one that likes the shy one like they are funny when their shy say like "Umm... well may i kiss you please (insert name here) youre cute (and or hot) and i wanted to" That a way to get it. She may even kiss you before you go in for the kill.

[Underground_Network]

ok... he trying to get a date not get laid. Yeah at the end of a date just before she leaves ask "Do you mind if i kissed you?" and if she is the one that likes the shy one like they are funny when their shy say like "Umm... well may i kiss you please (insert name here) youre cute (and or hot) and i wanted to" That a way to get it. She may even kiss you before you go in for the kill.

To put what he said in better English (the second part about if she likes you when you act shy; also note, its basically just my own variation of what he said)....: "Ummm... well do you mind if I kiss you, you look wonderful/beautiful tonight, and I just think it would be a great way to end an unbelievable night." It might sound kind of hokie, but hell, why not? If she really likes you she'll just straight out kiss you before you even get to the you look wonderful/beautiful/cute part. I'm like you too though. I'm very shy in general and even worse around girls. I always fumble my words when I'm around girls and I've never asked a girl out either. I'm still waiting for my first real kiss. :)